how to get out of a bad relationship?

I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years and a half. we have one son together. Actually we might've had two but I miscarried with my first baby. anyway, the arguing persists and I find myself falling out of love with the guy I used to adore. I'm torn between trying to fix everything or just move on and find the right guy for me. Even if we did end up breaking up, I'm afraid no man would want to be with me since I am a mother. What can I do to find true happiness?

Change you perception. Ask yourself what would truly make you happy (not just relationship wise, but life wise too) and if that doesn't include him being in your life, so be it. I wouldn't worry about guys not wanting you because your a single mother; there are plenty of guys who would love you and your son. But the important thing is to seek out what makes you happy, because when you are feeling happy and looking for happiness, then you will undoubtedly attract happiness to you (for more information research "Law of Attraction"). Remember that your son needs at least one parent that is concerned for his well being, makes sure to consider if your boyfriend will have any positive influences for you son. If not, I don't see why leaving him would be a mistake.

When ever a child is involved try to factor them in. broken families are hard on a child but an unhealthy home life can be worse. I recommend counseling as well and if you need to breakup focus on being happy single before looking for a new relationship. Plenty of men just want to be loved and are not turned away by children. YOLO is used by teens these days to commit stupid acts of self destruction. when it should be used to evaluate the direction our life is taking.