Needing someone to lend an ear

The world is your oyster glaze. There is nothing you can't do or can learn to do. Is there something you think you can develop a passion for? Ever seen something that inspired you and made you think "hey, I want to do that". I was in your exact situation, I was bored and inactive. My inactivity led to an unfulfilling lifestyle which gave rise to confidence and anxiety issues. I knew I needed a change so I went and bought a gym membership because I was sick of not doing anything. I wanted to be able to do anything. My fitness increase led to hobbies like backpacking, cycling, trail running and skiing and those hobbies helped me Segway into photography. When you make a lifestyle change like that it's a snowball effect, one thing leading seamlessly to the other. And I've never been happier. So what are you going to do? Nobody is going to change your life for you. Its your story, it's your life.

Look n plan for special exciting things. I use to be bored. Now I select a convention for the year n save up and have something to look forward to. I also try a new restraint every couple months just to have a change. Just trying one new thing can be a start for other things.

I cant lend you an ear my friend. This is not Naruto shippuden where people can just remove their eyes and give them other people.