What girl would date me?

Lol thanks Tiger. =P Also, I don't really take offense to much of anything either Name, everyone is titled to their own opinions. I'm not saying don't encourage anyone, but you can only lead a horse to water, you can't make them drink. I know some people that have low confidence still over things that has happened to them, where as other are like I don't care. Me, personally I'm that person that's like shit happens, I can only control so much of it and move on. I was just simply making a point that you can't assume someone's confident most times by public actions, believe it or not, most people do act differently in public. Why? Simple, because they don't want people to see how they really are. As for my experience, I hate being in public. I either get nervous and talk a lot or I don't talk at all. That doesn't make me an unconfident person nor does it state that I don't try to improve. I'm better in public now than I used to be yes, but I still could be better at it. Regardless of that, some people just have harder times getting over the hurdles than others. That's just a mixture of human mental fortitude conscious and subconscious along with human emotions. Somethings you improve on more easy than others, but back to leading a horse to water, they can only improve if they truly want to improve themselves.

^ that's what I was getting at. You can only go so far to help someone else out. If you're a low confident person not willing to give anything a try, I can't really say that I can help you. BUT if you're a low confident person, such as the OP that's trying to get out there, then I'll likely help you out. Condemning someone who's low on confidence, even if their trying is just plain mean. Heck even if someone doesn't want to try, condemning them is still horrible. I at least try to help comfort the unwilling individual. Note however I won't date a woman who is unwilling to try, but if a low confident woman is trying her hardest, I'm willing to date them, not condemn them. Seriously though society is evil, it's like, it's not ok to be unhappy when something goes wrong.

I can agree to you Tiger. People are fucking assholes when something goes wrong. It's like you said, you can't be unhappy. So who are the assholes saying that then? So if my dad and mom died it's not ok to feel sad? Fuck you whoever thinks that. And as in my last comments on the other posts I agree with what I said and I can understand what xxsuperragexx is going through. We don't lack confidence, we lack luck or something god only knows what it is. We both are trying and it is the same outcome, and then these people are saying that we need to shape up and "GET OVER IT" Fuck that, if it was you, you would be worse. What we are saying is that we are tired of putting worthless effort in trying to chat with girls, get their numbers, and nothing goes further on that. That's why he says he does not care, can you blame the guy? I mean shit women don't even appreciate chivalry anymore (I know not all), and if we do it they think that we want to get in their pants. Well I got news for those girls, FUCK YOU I'm not a horndog, I keep that shit to myself.

^ Oh you. I apologize for snapping at you. Also I should've read your posts more carefully. I didn't think that's where you were getting at. @ Ace Yeah I strongly see where your getting at. Many ppl I hung out with stopped hanging out with me, when I fell into depression due to major family issues. Quite frankly it would seem that either ppl think it's weakness to give into your more negative emotions, that or don't know how to be good to someone down and out. While many ppl out there are cruel, there some good ppl as well. It's just finding the good ppl will be like finding the hay in the needlestack.(I hope you get the pun)

Yeah I hate assholes like that. Too bad society is stupid and only care about themselves. I bet you if it was them they would want you (in general) to feel sorry for them.

^ actually yeah, it was like that with some ppl I met, I did my part by comforting them, but whenever it was the otherway around, they never wanted to help. So I don't really give, too frequently since ppl only like to take. I really don't know what to tell ya.

I dont know how to help you but I respect you because you have ryu from street fighter as profile pic. All street fighter fans are my friends