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I completely agree with Captain Seki, I prefer guys who are a little bit of both. Rather than 'hard' or 'soft' I'd say I like a guy who's one part gentleman and one part rougher-type-guy? What's a good word for kind of a rougher sort of guy? I think the best kind of guys are the ones who are sweet to their girls and would do anything for them but are tough in the real world. By tough I don't mean like physically aggressive, I just meant someone who won't let anyone break him down.

I'm going to be the romantic here and say that I do think there is such a thing as "the one". Sure it's not easy to find them, but once/if you do, you'll know. Think of all the billions of people on the planet. Out of all of them there has to be one that you get along with best/love the most. That's your one and only and you'll be very lucky to find them. :)