*blip* Bardal @bardal
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It's because I dont exist. :D
♡Lenny (❍ᴥ❍Ʋ)♡ @lenny82 You are just a figment of my imagination :P
❀Sunflower❀ @sunflower
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❀Sunflower❀ @sunflower
Fun fun
Ur a good big brother aren't u sanfi lol
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Oh just cleaning and using that konmari way
How about u sanfii
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Sannnnnfiiiiiiiii
Elz @enerezu
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Well, some of the things they said was true. Like that kind of relationship is just a "relationshit" because you really don't know the true nature of the people you talk to.
Sunbae @alanzd
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So you like the feeling of wanting to have sex... And to want to have sex you have to be emotionally compatible with them and you have to be kind to them. You're right. I really don't understand it haha.
See, My sex drive is set to park until I start sucking their neck and I usually put it back into park before anything really starts.
Well, what arouses you, then?
Sunbae @alanzd
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Ooo are you one of those people who can't feel sexual attraction until after a bond is formed? That is about as genuine as a person can get, in my opinion.
Yes, it's called liking the hunt instead of the prey. The sex itself isn't the driving force, it's the wanting of it that drives you, right? That is the ex act view I have on conflict. I like conflict because I like the challenge, not because I actually feel passionate about the subject.
Is that what you mean?
Also, sleep well ~
Sunbae @alanzd
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Well, would you like them to see you as a sexual being? To me, them not considering you one is a good thing, since you are demisexual. It means that if they do stay by your side, you'll know that it's because of your compatibility and how you are morally connected.
As for the trusting you part, I'm sorry to say, but I can see where they are coming from. They've probably had someone do that to them in the past so it affects their decisions and their views now. But, wanting something from someone isn't necessarily a bad thing. I've met the best people because I wanted something from them. It can become more than that. I can't give advice or empathy on this one, but I can say that I live in SoCal, the majority of the women here only want to hook up for a single night and bail. For people like you and I, it isn't something that we can be satisfied with.
Relationships can't be built on kindness alone, no?
And, if you're the acclaimed stalker you claim to be, then you'll know I can get decently serious as well!
Sunbae @alanzd
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OOo the deep talk, okehh
Demisexuality is the ideal one in terms of compatibility. It seems to me that the people that you've interacted with, or at least the women that you've interacted with, are more interested in a virtual love than a committed relationship. But I could be wrong!
Of course that makes you feel wrong. For a demisexual person, where emotional compatibility means the most, faking emotions would be the ultimate form of self disrespect!
I think most people on MO are like that. There was a song by the Spice Girls about becoming friends before becoming soul partners, and I do agree with that!
Give it a try if you haven't yet given it a try. It might end badly, but it's better than it not ending at all :D
Sunbae @alanzd
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Ayy that's my line lol!
With those looks and that cheekiness, you can pull almost anything off!