Hello. I’m a 29 year old divorcee who is looking to start dating again. I’m 5’6, slim, with blue eyes & red hair. I’m looking to meet someone new & hopefully start a relationship with them. I’m a hopeless romantic whose last relationship was more or less a Hellish nightmare & I’m really looking forward to meeting someone I can really connect with. Here’s a little bit about me: I’m a huge anime fan, and have been for over 15 years now. I attend as many conventions as I can, as often as life allows. My favorite shows include One Piece, Naruto Shippuden, To Love Ru, Hellsing Ultimate, Full Metal Panic, Black Lagoon & Slayers. I’m a huge fan of the classics as well as the shows that are being aired now. I’m always interested in checking out new shows or manga & love having discussions or debates on things that are anime related. My other hobbies include writing (I’ve written 3 unpublished novels & am currently working on a fourth), drawing & occasionally playing video games. I am currently taking classes to get a Media Arts & Animation degree. I am quite a sensitive person & honestly look for what is inside a person over their outward appearance. However, I am also aware that with any relationship a certain level of physical attraction is important. I believe wholeheartedly that honesty & trust are the number one things a relationship requires, and I am honest to a fault. I am not afraid to answer any question asked of me – regardless of what the nature of the question & I will always answer truthfully. I also believe trust is very important because after my last relationship I am very firm on wanting a woman who knows how to be faithful to someone. I will be the first to admit I am not perfect; however I will not put a person on a pedestal either. We are all human & we all have faults – it is important that you recognize that & don’t try playing the ‘I’m always right’ card. I can accept myself for who I am & am comfortable with most everything about me, though as with all people there are some things I am not necessarily happy about with myself. I do not being in saying those ‘three words’ everyone is so found of throwing around these days unless I really mean it & I am not someone who by the second or third time talking with someone is ready to commit to saying them. I want to get to know a person as well as I can & have a real connection with them, not just something to settle with or ‘have for right now’. I have a lot to offer someone who is willing to take the time & get to know me, & who is willing to work at a relationship without taking the easy way out when things get tough. Persistence & hard work should be as much a part of the foundation of a relationship as trust & honesty, & I am willing to put in the time, effort & feeling to make a good relationship last. I’m horribly shy when I first meet someone, and have become accustomed to & prefer to start talking via an instant messenger service such as MSN Messenger, AIM or Yahoo Messenger.
I am looking for a woman who is down-to-earth, honest & loyal. I defiantly prefer to meet someone who shares the same interests as me, especially my love for anime. I also prefer it if the woman has similar beliefs about having a relationship as I do. Age, race & appearance are not something I discriminate against, & while I would prefer someone close in size to myself, I am not against getting to know people who are not. I do ask that when a picture is sent to me it is a real picture & not some photoshopped super-model. I also prefer getting to know the real you, and not just to be told what you think I would want to hear. My life is an open book to any questions that will help you get to know me & I would ask for the same courtesy, however am understandable if there are some things you prefer not to talk about right away. I would also prefer that the woman both likes children & is good with them. I have 2 children from my previous marriage- a daughter who is 8 and a son who is 2 ½. I only get to see my kids on the weekends, & they mean a great deal to me. While I am not looking to replace their mother in any way, I would like to eventually let them meet the person I am with & hopefully have a good relationship with them – especially if things are going well between me & this person. I also have a rather odd sense of humor, which at times may come across awkward, but I ask that you kind of roll-with-the-punches as much as you can with it, as I don’t intend to offend in most circumstances. If something is said that is offence though, please tell me straight-away as it defeats the purpose of trying to get to know one another if things like that are not rectified. I also do consider myself some-what of a horn-dog & am not shy when it comes to questions either being asked to or from myself as I believe a healthy sex life is also one of the cornerstones of a good relationship. I am not one of those people who are ‘just looking to get laid’ as I believe that sex should have some emotional ties to it. Above all else I am looking to meet a woman I am compatible with, who knows how to compromise, try new things & have a good time out of being together.
I am aware that sites like this are full of non-real people who shoot e-mails relentlessly with links & various other bull, but I ask that if you are real, and interested in talking that I don’t receive any ‘register at such-n-such a site to talk to me’ kind of bull & stick with a simple message that tells a bit about yourself, a picture (nothing crude) & a contact for a messenger service like MSN, AIM or Yahoo, so that we can actually talk & get to know each other. I’d rather not receive any ‘dirty’ pictures right away as I am looking for someone to share my life with, not get down & dirty with. I will immediately disregard any message I receive with a link to a website (myspace, facebook & twitter excluded) so please keep that in mind. Thank you & I look forward to hearing from you if you are real & interested!
I am looking for a woman who is down-to-earth, honest & loyal. I defiantly prefer to meet someone who shares the same interests as me, especially my love for anime. I also prefer it if the woman has similar beliefs about having a relationship as I do. Age, race & appearance are not something I discriminate against, & while I would prefer someone close in size to myself, I am not against getting to know people who are not. I do ask that when a picture is sent to me it is a real picture & not some photoshopped super-model. I also prefer getting to know the real you, and not just to be told what you think I would want to hear. My life is an open book to any questions that will help you get to know me & I would ask for the same courtesy, however am understandable if there are some things you prefer not to talk about right away. I would also prefer that the woman both likes children & is good with them. I have 2 children from my previous marriage- a daughter who is 8 and a son who is 2 ½. I only get to see my kids on the weekends, & they mean a great deal to me. While I am not looking to replace their mother in any way, I would like to eventually let them meet the person I am with & hopefully have a good relationship with them – especially if things are going well between me & this person. I also have a rather odd sense of humor, which at times may come across awkward, but I ask that you kind of roll-with-the-punches as much as you can with it, as I don’t intend to offend in most circumstances. If something is said that is offence though, please tell me straight-away as it defeats the purpose of trying to get to know one another if things like that are not rectified. I also do consider myself some-what of a horn-dog & am not shy when it comes to questions either being asked to or from myself as I believe a healthy sex life is also one of the cornerstones of a good relationship. I am not one of those people who are ‘just looking to get laid’ as I believe that sex should have some emotional ties to it. Above all else I am looking to meet a woman I am compatible with, who knows how to compromise, try new things & have a good time out of being together.
I am aware that sites like this are full of non-real people who shoot e-mails relentlessly with links & various other bull, but I ask that if you are real, and interested in talking that I don’t receive any ‘register at such-n-such a site to talk to me’ kind of bull & stick with a simple message that tells a bit about yourself, a picture (nothing crude) & a contact for a messenger service like MSN, AIM or Yahoo, so that we can actually talk & get to know each other. I’d rather not receive any ‘dirty’ pictures right away as I am looking for someone to share my life with, not get down & dirty with. I will immediately disregard any message I receive with a link to a website (myspace, facebook & twitter excluded) so please keep that in mind. Thank you & I look forward to hearing from you if you are real & interested!
