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Are you afraid that people won't like you here??

leo_ss
NOPE! Just send someone a message, Say Heyo. If they don't go Yobro, Then It's a nogo. And I go say Heeeeeyo to someone else. Seriously though. It's just like life, If someone wants to see you, They'll say hi back if they don't the worse they can do is ignore you. So I only have a chance to get an extra friend, While losing out on nothing. I'd say those are good odds.
bob_loblaw
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cinnaminion
Most definitely. There's a good amount of peeps around with prejudice towards transfolk. :c With that being said, there's still a bunch of nice peeps here that are super supportive and understanding. I haven't been here for long but I've already made some really close friends and I enjoy the little pokes and messages people leave me. :>
digitalwolf001
I'm not afraid of individuals not liking me but the community as a whole. I've found a bunch of people that I like chatting with, but I can never tell if I'm being to forward or over zealous in my attempts to talk to more people. I don't want to come off as annoying.
hakutaku
The most possible reason why I may be disliked on social media is my responding to messages slowly while being active on the forums. Oh, being a weirdo of weirdos is another reason.... What else could I do? I could do nothing. Don't you think their vanishment also prevents me from spreading myself too thin? Apparently, online and offline people who appreciate my presence are more than people who hate me.
digitalwolf001
I have yet to see a person here who hates you. I've enjoyed talking with you about Epic Poems and such. I can't imagine why anyone would be bothered by you not replying immediately either, you identified yourself as a kuudere and explained why you might not reply right way in your info section. You're cool.
oneman
Not really. I enter every room, expecting to be the one people either hate the most, or just don't care about. So I came on here with honest and earnest intentions. I have plenty of positive points, but they're vastly overshadowed with negative points. Yet all I really came on here for was earnest critique and understanding. Yet just like "normies" people on here are just exactly the same. Makes me wonder why I bothered with the Otaku filter when ACTUAL SUCCESSFUL SITES like E Harmony were a better chance than a shit crapshoot. Half of the time I feel like a normie would understand me better because they would actually comprehend how I'm pretty much political F***ing royalty I am here in the States if I explained all of the concepts revolving around it. Then probably end up breaking up due to being hated for my actions, lol. Yet at least that would be a f***ing journey, rather than this stagnant crapshoot. I thought people here with the same passion as I would understand me better, but half of the time it feels like they understand EVEN LESS SOMEHOW. It is BAFFLING. I would probably do better with a Christian Conservative who hates everything I am about, because at least all of the pretentiousness would be gone and we could end up fighting until fucking! I want companionship and friendship and love, but quite frankly people are so damn subpar and stopped fucking trying that I'm starting to think happiness with another person is an impossible endeavor! I'm not going to ever lower my standards because, well, let's look at the goddamned result. Exhibit A)People who lower their standards often bitch the most about their spouses, loved ones and children. Exhibit B) Those who know what they want and don't compromise in their desire, but adapt to each other's needs, have shown me that they reach the pinnacle of happiness. Fuck, I'm a goddamned byproduct of Exhibit B if you need some form of f-ing proof.
digitalwolf001
If you didn't start every post with harsh criticism you might find people accept you more. As it is now you come off as Stinkmeaner from the Boondocks. You can be kind and still uphold your standards. If you're political royalty then you're horrible at politics, you can't even seem to keep the people of this site on your side. When public perception of you is low you don't make the meat of your rant how you'd like to distance yourself from the people around you.
chocopyro
Lo and behold, we're humans who get butthurt easily just like most normies in a modern society do. And in a way, you're right. The overwhelming condescension and toxic persona does kinds obscure your better points. I have to reread most of your long ass posts twice. The first to read the post, and the second to avoid writing a flame rant based on a misunderstanding of what you said. And by the time I do make a post, its to persuade the flamers out that the general message is good, it's just delivered by a crappy person. To be frank though, you make my natural instinct as a mediator more trouble than it's worth. If you did know how to compromise, maybe you could find the ability to relate to us lazy, entitled, peasants. But as it is now, I have nothing but genuine concern for A.) the girl who enters into a toxic relationship with you, or B.) you, based on the kinda girl that is drawn to a toxic relationship. The worst part is, you actually could fit in here, but it shows that you lack any kind of emotional intelligence or empathy for your fellow men and women based on how you walk through the forums like godzilla in a city with tightly packed infrastructure. By the way, I don't hate you, Oneman. I just want to implore you to look for a trained professional psychiatrist, before you become a sexually frustrated serial killer. Because that and your excess pride are what are keeping other humans from seeking out friendships and similar bonds with you.
hakutaku
Hey, members expressing views that are different from yours doesn't mean they deny you....But if you deny us because we are "inferior" due to different opinions, lifestyles,experience, we could only walk away in awe... ू(ʚ̴̶̷́ .̠ ʚ̴̶̷̥̀ ू)....Sorry.. I apologize to you on behalf of all members here.
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