Chocopyro

Well, as someone who's been cheated on a decade or two ago, a lot of the behavioral signs that people think are signs of cheating are actually just signs of disinterest or broken trust. For example. The girlfriend I had about a decade or two ago thought I was the one cheating because I was growing increasingly withdrawn and disinterested in her. So there was a long period of unwarranted suspicion that never really panned out into anything. I get like that sometimes. My adhd causes me to dive way too deeply into video games and anime, and I become despondent to the rest of the world. We have this thing we kinda have trouble regulating. It's called Impulse control, coupled by a strong bias towards highly stimulating visuals. And I don't mean boobs, I mean saturated colors, dynamic fight scenes, and flashy game mechanics. And I didn't know about my demisexuality until much later in life, but that too was misread. So unless you find physical evidence like hickies/lipstick on their neck, outfits with another man's stains on them, or she give's birth to a kid that doesn't share your or her genetics, at a certain point you just kinda have to trust them, even if it looks like the same thing from that past relationship that you were hung-up on before getting into a new one. -passive aggressive leer-