Love Confessions

@Lonely tsundere http://pa1.narvii.com/5673/25c34c2824eaa5fe75966def274339266cba0885_hq.gif

Nope never had it happen. Things just happen naturally. What is the point in making someone fell awkward. Real life is not some high school slice of life anime. Stop making people feel awkward with your love confessions.

Confessed before, never been confessed to. Needless to say, confessing in my situation was a bad idea, but that was purely based on my circumstances.

I've confessed before.... >.> never been confessed to.... *shrug* eh...confessing to them was a disappointmen..but I got it off my chest c:

I don't ever confess my feelings until the other person confess theirs. But if he cant do it either i then just say (to hell with it Im gonna tell him) and then I do. Which in return it comes back as a I do to sometimes or they don't want a relationship cause of exes Lol. But sometimes because I've been hurt for so long Im afraid to accept their confessions. So when I feel the time is right and I feel better and happy I will do it again.

I believe a guy shouldnt be afraid to confess if he has made sure that his feelings are legitimate. It doenst help confessing purely on being swooned by looks or because you feel so lonely you think you need someone to help with that. One must be ready mentally for a relationship and know who you are, what you want and be ready to compromise to an extent. Its about both partners' happiness not just your own. IF one is unhappy how can the other be happy (unless your some sadist 0_0) Also i found myself confessing to a girl that beforehand i knew didnt really like me in the same way. But the fact that it was eating me, the uncertainty of the situation.. i felt the need to confess just for the sake of getting an answer and being able to move forward again. It became a huge weight off my shoulders when i did so, even though i didnt get a positive answer. Remember, not everyone likes everyone, people have different tastes and thus you cant become mad at such a person for not sharing the feelings you possess. Take it as FATE, and know that the right one is still out there waiting.

^ i agree you shouldn't be afraid to confess your feelings. But theres also the issue that people tend to think "hey, he/she said it, I should say it too!" or "I don't feel that way right now, so i probably never will." and then they decided to break up just because they think that if you're going to love someone, it happens at the same time... and it doesn't. one of my friends whose waiting for the right time to ask his gf to marry him, he hated her when they first met. but she loved him after a short while. and that went on for a year before things started to change. not to mention, to be honest... theres really no set time before you can love someone. you can love someone at any point in time after meeting them. you don't have to be together for so long for you to love them. if you do, you do. if you don't, it doesn't mean you wont. though you still might never. but thats just how it goes.

About two years ago, the guy I liked confessed his love to me in the most awkward way ever. Please don't do that. We were at a sleepover with some friends, maybe 6-8 people. We watched movies and had a lot of fun and after a while we all went sleeping. At that time I did not know how to behave around him because my best friend had a crush on him for quite a long time and it was pretty obvious that he had a crush on me. So basically a simple love triangle situation. Everyone was sleeping and at about 5 am I woke up and was not able to sleep again. He was awake too and we talked a lot, but we had to be very quiet because everyone around us was still asleep, so I came over to him and sat next to him so we could speak more quietly. It was fun to talk to him, but I felt very uncomfortable because my best friend was sleeping about 2 metres away from me without knowing anything and I felt like i was betraying her. Suddenly he just looked at me and said that he loved me and I did not know how to react. On the one hand, I really liked him, but on the other hand, I would hurt my best friend and she just did not deserve that. I replied that I liked him too because I wanted to be honest, but I just felt like a really bad person. I did not want to be in a situation where I would have to choose, I would have been completely okay with just staying friends and enjoying the time with him without hurting anybody. The worst thing is that he knew about my best friend's feelings for him and confessed his love to me anyway, knowing all the consequences and the situation he would put me in, about 2 metres away from her, in a room at the house of a friend where I could not get away that easily int the middle of the night and where I would not have the time to think about everything... and also in the most unromantic way possible. Obviously, a lot of drama was going on in the next few weeks. In the end, we did not get together and I still think that it was the right decision. (I'm sorry if I made some mistakes, I am not a native English speaker)