Username lalo1234243

It's a sub genre of two sub genres so it's rare. I like lolis, but I prefer bad ass motherf*ckin lolis. Why I like loli vampires.

If I had to pick one extreme I'd go with too picky/unattainable While I'm all for only going for people you have a high thought of long term sustainability with there is always the possibility that a relationship can evolve into something deeper. You don't always have to jump into a relationship with an all out swan dive (although that is my personal style) to give it a chance. A picky person can be upfront about the casual nature of the relationship and be upfront about their trepidation and it can fail or work from there. If a person at least piques your interest then give it some shot right? Also to a degree picky people might be more inclined to look for reasons why relationships aren't working rather than why it is.

Jake from State Farm?! I gotta talk to that guy! The new guy can save me money :) Welcome moneysaver guy :)

I think Maria laid down a good few points to base this decision on. Even if you can speak the language, are sure the person isn't out to hurt you and is who they say they are, have the ability to accommodate yourself when living there independent of this other person, have known this person for long enough and more importantly trust them enough to go through with it...even with all that one still has to consider the sheer change that comes with uprooting yourself. It's enough just to travel within your own country but with all the customs and changes in culture it's a lot to take in. And it would not be just for a one time one day visit. Traveling cross country is expensive. Let me put it this way, even considering all of the above, I would have to really have gotten to know and really liked the person to do all that~