Absolute must-haves in a GF/BF?

Intelligence is a big factor, especially a good command of the English language. If they were foreign, I wouldn't be bothered by it, but I think that a native speaker should be able to know when to use good and when to use well. I know that this may seem nit-picky, but two of my main leisure activities are reading and writing, so I have a bit of a love affair going with the English language. A good sense of responsibility is also a requirement. I like people with confidence, but still with enough restraint that they respect other people property. I would try to avoid anyone too clingy. And while I realize I'd have to earn these things, loyalty and trust would be a priority down the road. Saying that she needs similar hobbies seems redundant here, but I will add that I'd like them to have nerd passion, the kind that let's them get really excited when involved with conversations about their favorite fiction or go on rants about subjects they feels strongly about. And here are a few things that wouldn't be deal breakers, but I would prefer. While I'm a pretty open-minded guy, I do think a relationship would be easier to maintain if both people were of the same religion. I happen to be a Christian, no real denomination. I also think that if a girl would cosplay with me, it'd be fun and attractive. Lastly, it'd be nice if they had some knowledge and like of Mega Man. I have an odd obsession with the series and likely to not shut up about it, so this one would be more for her sake than mine.

well i would say that i want a girl thats cute, smart, funny, can be a bit shy (not too shy), really nice, sweet. if you play card games then that's awesome! but you dont have too :) definitely gotta play video games :D not to the point where you would rather stay home all day just to beat a level though i absolutely hate that. i want someone with an open mind and a willingness to hear new ideas about things. i dont want a religious person (or atleast overly religious and pushing your beliefs on me). music? gotta love rock music :) any genre is good :) cant be really tall since im 5'6 :P hair? black and long :) bangs are awesome :) anyway thats all i got for now :) oh and glasses are cool with me :)

You have a lot of things (O.O) But a lot of them are really common~ Cute, smart and funny seem to be what guys most commonly look for in girls. Actually, girls probably also look for those traits in guys a lot too (^_^;)