Is this sad? And now what?

This is my little depressing story: A few days ago, my girlfriend broke up with me because of the reason "You're too perfect and I;m not enough. you should search for someone else". And now she fell in love with my best friend and started to date him. I tried to convince her that she really is my true love. She knows that I love her from the deepest of my heart. She loves me too, but she thinks she's only trouble for me. But I think it's to late now. She has someone else. The saddest thing is that I have very good contact with her parents through Whatsapp. And her parents keep constantly asking me if I could wait for her, that this is all just one big stage of her life and after this she will come back. I still love her, but how long do I have to wait. I still love her, but other girls also ask me out. I'm a bit scared that I will hurt feelings of people in the end. What should I do? I'm too nice to hurt someone...

I'm just the the type of guy that doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. I mostly want to see her happy, but I also realize she is gone. But what to do about her parents? It looks like they are almost begging and I feel sorry for them. But she still likes me, she said. The only reason that she broke up is because she thinks she can't be good enough or can't be the girl she should be. She's very shy and doesn't like any physical contact or so. I was well aware of that and I didn't do anything. I just think where it went wrong.

Sorry to tell you man but her excuse is total BS, if you stay as the guy that doesn't want to hurt anyone then people will take advantage of you. Also if you he was your best friend he wouldn't have gone out with her, don't be the guy that waits around because in the end it'll get harder and harder for you. Take it from a guy who was told to wait for someone for 5 years, don't do it man. If you're to good for her than you're just the right person for someone else.

I also thought the excuse was made-up. I think I just was a normal crush that lasts 3 months. But I actually confessed to her at the time. But she did the same thing at exact the same time. And maybe I'm the right person for someone else. And about that best friend... When I fell in love with this girl, I heard from him that he liked her too two weeks after. Only he became sort of stalker and I tried to protect her. Apparently she can be talked over easily by talking for a longer time with her. He spend all his time in her and even couldn't earn money, pass school and keep his friends because of her. She also knew for a very long time that he likes her, but she had shown no interest. Only when things with me and her got a bit weird, she got interested in him. I wanted to sucker-punch my "best friend", but I think violence is never the solution. The only thing I did was being very mad at him, but I couldn't do anything. Because she wanted to date him... And I respect her wish. Eventhough she still wants to hang out with me, it feels like hell. There are still other girls that like me, I noticed. But want to hurt them. What to do here?

Don't have out with her man, don't let her linger it will get harder and harder and you will be stuck waiting. You don't want that pain and the opportunities you will gain from letting her go will be so much better. I have done this and let girls go un-noticed because I was stuck on somebody and I regretted this for years.

This could really be just a stage of her life just like her parents told you. She has made her decision. It is obvious that she doesn't really know what she wants. Even if the excuse she gave you is fake, it still means she doesn't want to lose you but she also wants your best friend. In this case you have 2 choices: First, because you still love her, you stay at her side, and wait for her to return to you. In that case it will be hard for you to forget her, but if she wants to be with you later you will be there. Which is not guaranteed though. Also if you decide to wait for her you shouldn't go after other girls because you can end up hurting them and also give her the wrong impression. Second: You forget about her, you date some girl you really like and stay with her. After you've completely forgotten about her you can become friends and still be at her side, because after all you'd probably still care for her. In this case nothing is guaranteed, and you will need time. Remember that when you don't want to hurt other people's feeling you will most likely end up being hurt yourself. I hope it turns out good in the end though ^^ Good luck!

Thanks for the help and tips! ^^ I'll see what I do, it's still a bit hard to think about.