"sad virgin men"

Virgin and proud just to get that out of the way. I'm saving it for someone special given I haven't been put in the situation to lose it I still like to think I'd be able to turn it down if the time wasn't right. That isn't to say I haven't had my share of dates no girl friends but I've been on enough dates to know that I might be awkward I might be innocent and inexperienced but from what the first article that started this whole thing was sawing I under stood it as basically being some girls boy toy. I am no ones toy I am not your little dog in your purse I am a man one that I'm not gunna change my self for you unless it's something I can see needs to be changed for example my hair I am not gunna die it because you want me to if you want to die someones hair go do that to your girl fiends. It's different if I'm being to close or not close enough or what ever that is something that should be something built in a relationship is when to give someone space and when to be close but I'm not gunna change my style of close I'm not gunna change the things that I like or how I like to present my self for a girl. If you just wanted to change me in the first place why would you try to date me. That's what I'd say to the girl anyways.

But the original little essay brings up a couple good points and a couple no nos that everyone should do/not do in a relationship if they've been in 100 relationships or 0. 1. I think he/she should be delighted with the little things you do I mean the details are what make a relationship special to paraphrase the wedding singer great movie by the way. It's the little things that count (letting them sit in the window seat on the plane, making dinner, etc.) 2. he/she should compare you to there last gf/bf ... compare how much better you are then them 3. You should always purse a "innocent relationship" I'd like to call it more a mature relationship though. A relationship where both parties are equally in love and have equal respect for each other is the best kind of relationship.

4. You shouldn't be jealous of other girls anyways if he/she is in the relationship he/she should be in it with you and if he/she is experienced or not eyes wonder no one is perfect it's what happens and a little bit of jealousy is also natural but they did still pick you over that person and that should mean something. 5. I'd rather people not use "relationship tactics" anyways why play games? Games are for kids when you are a adult you should be able to be straight up with your partner anyways and I personally hate having to play love games and or having to decipher others head games it's stupid just tell me straight up what is going on. 6. He/she should remember special days anyways given everyone forgets form time to time its natural as human beings but when you do remember it shows you care about the other person and that you really appreciate your time with them and why does it have to be a special occasion its bee said for years randomly surprise your girl/guy with something on a random day just cuzz you love them and spice up your relationship. 7. You shouldn't have to worry about him/her cheating on you you probably shouldn't be dating them the main pillar of any good relationship is trust if you don't have that don't get in the relationship.

sorry long comments you guys don't have to read if you don't want I've just had to deal with stuff like this since I was in high school and it's a subject I can get into.