Polyamorous?

Just as Bettername said, A mother's love is WAY completely different from the love we're talking about. With more than one partner, someone is bound to feel left out. It WILL happen 9 times out of 10. Could be from an inside joke, or one might feel the spread of affection is unfair. The idea behind romantic love is to make your partner feel special, out of everyone in the world, they were chosen, above all other possible candidates. That kind of love is NOT special when you can freely give it to multiple people at the same time. I don't want a multiple partner relationship, When I find love, I don't want to feel like I'm still amidst a faceless crowd. The one whom I love will be the ONLY one whom I love. It's not unreasonable to expect the same in return. What I expect from my partner is nothing more than what I am willing to give to them.

I'm a one woman kind of guy; if a girl I'm with suggested something like this, I couldn't look at her the same way anymore and would probably end it. There's a difference between family love and love towards a romantic partner.

ive done this 3 times in the past so far, all of them included me and other women no men (trying too get guys is hard it seems lol) anyway all of them were either 2-3 girls and me, but they all ended in failure, even though i gave all of them equal attention one of them ended being jealous and wanted me all to her self and as a result ended it for everyone...... honestly ive always wanted just 1 girl/guy too love and care for... doing things as a couple in 3ways or whatever is fine but sometimes its better just to not include anyone else at all unless you can truly handle it and not get jealous. Its not for everyone.

Yeah, I find it's hard enough just handling 1, especially when you're put in a situation where you do most of the handling X.x

That's interesting, I was under the impression that men were more open to it than women. I'm not really surprised, I suppose. I'd love to hear more if you don't mind being open about it. What were all three of the relationships like? Did you attempt to continue with the others after the one ruined it?

they were ok not really anything too feel proud about after it ended, and yes i tried to make it work but every time we all broke up.

aoiyosei, relationships always end in tears... "What are your thoughts on a relationship like that? Would you consider being in one?" Nothing wrong with it, but it is unlikely to happen, all 3(+) need to be in-love with each other which usually ends up being just Person A <3 B and B <3 C and C <3 A. and that's why these relationships often fail. Would I consider being in one? well speaking from experience, Yes I would, Once you truly go head over heels for someone you will be willing to share even if it hurts your heart like there is no tomorrow and every breath you take make your longs feel like they're about to collapse... (in my case the situation was as described with A->B->C->A. A being me, B being my crush and C being her best friend. We nearly went that far but in the end we decided against it and I went on a few date's with C to see if I could respond to her feelings, but I couldn't so it ended at that. No winners, all losers.