Risk taking

So what if you take the safe road with all the unicorns and flowers and marshmallow trees your whole life? I do that. Life seems pretty nice (sorta)

"Dude, to know what you like, and to know what you're looking for, you learn through dating, and eventually you know what you want, and then it is EASIER to find the perfect match to be with you for the rest of your life. love isnt that simple, you cant just find the perfect match for you on the first try." - Maverick I'm not looking for a perfect match, Rob. I'm looking for someone who will accept me as I am. I do not want to waste my time with someone who isn't even close to what I want in a person. I already know what type of person I want, all I have to do is find people closely matching that description. We have different philosophies, and thats fine. I am just at a different point in my life than you. I don't want to waste a second with someone who isn't what I want. On the same hand I do not mean that the pay off is permanence of the relationship, but one where I learn more about myself and what I want. You misunderstand, I don't need or want a perfect match, but I do not like the idea of rejection, so I generally play it safe until the odds are stacked in my favor. That, is all.

I find I get a little grumpy when someone asks me out and only now I found its the WAY they ask me. I just don't like that wanna-be thug act and I really can't stand a guy who isn't genuine. I can sniff that out almost instantly. Aside from that I really don't have a probably asking or being asked but it's got to be legit. Can't stand talking and talking only to find I wasted my time. Rejection happens you get over it and move on to the next.