Anyone here not mind...?

Does anyone here not mind a young male/female dating an older male/female even if it's illegal? I just want to see what you people think. And I mean REAL dating, like love, not just people flirting with kids. I don't approve of that. owo But please, leave your personal thoughts!

XP Well It depends on the age difference if the guy/girl is 30 and the girl/guy is under 15 then uhm theres a problem there but if its below 30 depends of they rlly love each pther if they do then its fine to me

Eh happens all the time in the midwest as long as the pair are hot looking i've seen 35 yr old men (and women) hit on and flirt with 15-16 yr old guys and girls. Sometimes they are a couple sometimes they aren't. Sometimes its just lust, especially at the Highschool I was at where the hot teachers were taking one of the more attractive guys as a lover for a while if not for a long while. Maturity is the factor imo, at younger ages its harder to understand older folks who have went through a lot more mature things, its the main reason older folks don't giggle and laugh at watching each other nude or porn when a younger person kinda gets embarrassed and does. Usually older folks have more experience. The worst part is the conversation, because THATS the biggest dealbreaker, sure the hot lustful sex needs to happen but relating to a person beyond a hobby or just a few similar interests gets harder the wider the age gap is because the world around us is ever-changing. Morals change 14 yr old girls dont marry 35 yr old men anymore like the Middleages, well.. not usually (unless in today's world he's hella wealthy and in a very lax country) People's ideals change culture changes. Like I remember walking around with my Tapedeck walkman... oh yes... im dusty and old... Do I mind a big age gap between lovers? I look at the world around me and I've see rapes, death, war, pestilence, slaughter, genocide, segregation, hate and spite. Men teaching boys to shoot AK47's to repel American invaders and Americans slaughtering each other when 2/3 of the world would kill just to be a resident here. Watched friends go to war and be blown into pieces watched women I loved be used and tossed to the gutter like trash after their so-called lover was through with them. Would I really care? Hell I wouldn't mind if they were 35 and 15 and brother and sister to be honest. I've seen to fucking much bad in this world to try and break up 2 people in love, but that's just me.

There's a topic named Forbidden Love which has the age thing down. It asked how far would you go? I commented on that with this. "To be honest I actually fallen for a girl who is under 18, I'm currently 21. She is 15, I know I'd probably get disgusting looks for saying that, but love is uncontrollable, we can't exactly pick who our hearts desire, reason why I'm not against same gender marriage. I would do anything for her, and I've tried to do everything for her. I don't care if she's underage, I have no sexual desire and I'd also keep it PG-13. All I could ask for is to be with them, to be theirs and they be mine. It shouldn't matter for age, gender, or what ever is preventing you for being together. Love is love, go where your heart desires, and when you actually LOVE someone, you would stop at nothing to be with them. " I have a feeling the age she's thinking is 13, being her age cuz I'm guessing we might be using her as a example for the question? Though for how old the guy is... there is a limit on how old he can be in my opinion, but I could change my mind easily. I don't see a problem with it, reason why? Cuz I don't think love should be restricted by certain things such as age, race, gender, etc. As I should in my quote above, love is uncontrollable when you find that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Who are we to judge them? If the young one is well aware of their feelings for the older one and the older one has no evil intentions, then I say let them be together. I would say lay off any sexual content though till they are 18, but some people don't even want sex, like myself. They just fallen in love, and all they could really care about is being in their arms, and hearing those three simple words.

xueli - Kind of, yes. To some people it may be sick, but I have been in a relationship with a 19 year old man while I was 11, and a relationship with a 17 year old man when I was 12. I am really used to these, but I want to see other peoples opinions and why.

Rezikai - That is worded very nicely, I salute you. And it's true, there are many bad things, and some people try to say love is just as bad as those things? It makes me sad to see that. In my mind, I want them both to consent, but at the same time, there are going to be people flirting with people of all ages, and it isn't really stoppable. And love should never be broken up, it's true. Nicely said soldier.