Why is it hard to search for the right girl?

So yea, there girl I like but she hasnt responed to my question. So I give up on her(Im not trying sound mean). I was hoping she said but hasnt responed plus Im really shy guy so it was hard for me to ask her. Why is it hard to find the right girl? Isnt because im shy? -sigh-

Well you have to take liberties with your criteria, you aren't going to likely find someone who matches all qualities. One thing I've learned: Good things come to those who are patient. So yeah, meet and talk to girls, but one good sign is when a girl initiates conversation with you. Not often it happens, when it does it usually indicates a degree of friendship can be achieved. All sound relationships begin as friends and go on from there.