Expectations

Yeah guys like that give me a bad name. I'm looking for someone to get to know hold kiss tell things to just be myself with. If sex happens that's fine but that's not the first thing I look for. I'm not looking for a easy go I'm looking for love. A lot if my guy friends call me gay but that's cause they are assholes lol. With me I don't have much luck with girls I get friend zoned or I get a bitch who lies or chests or both. I want a sweet girl once I like shy cute sweet girls.

Just a fake person acts one way around me and another around her friends. Lies to me chests on me or try to change me. Not open minded and not out going stays inside and not a big talker. I'm old school I like talking to people on the phone or in real life text are ok but not one worded answers like ok,cool,yeah,lol those just jet me mad if it's over done. I'm a easy going person so a drama person is a no one who needs to start something or wants things to be about her. Other then that I can't think of anything maybe I'm asking for a lot XD

I think it's best to go into dating with realistic expectations. Being friends and just dating a bit before considering yourself in an actual relationship is a great way to weed out people you might not feel you can click with long term, even if it takes a few weeks of dating. I've seen so many people jump into full-fledged relationships without being friends first and have it blow up in their faces. Somestimes it works out, but more often times than not once they get out of the infatuation stage and reality about the other person sinks in, they regret their decision

lol well ill say this drama is sometimes unavoidable. I agree with the whole text thing and believe me the one worded answers are basically just screaming "i dont have time for you" I really dont think that anything youve said is unreasonable. In fact I'd even dare to say that there are alot of women who feel the same.

wow Cecil i never thought of it that way...maybe what happened is I just moved so quickly i didnt have time to see what was really there infront of me..Its not that he hid anything or changed on me its just i didnt see what was really there

I see it that to if you don't know a person there isn't much to add on to start small and work on something greater if you both want it

Love is a two way street that meets in the middle both people need to wanna share their road and be ready for when they meet it's 50/50 one can't just give and the other take it won't work out that well.