Relationship Viewpoints...

You need to start out with something first and the easiest thing to start with is looks. That to a point is what you go by when you see someone.

I do a bit of both: I cannot really be attracted to someone if I have no physical attraction. Likewise I need someone who isnt a ditz or totally incompatible. My criteria is they cannot be obese and I have to have some attraction to them otherwise it isn't going to work out.

I agree freesia definitely doesnt matter how skinny or curved she is what matters is if your willing to spend your life with it because personality matteres in the long run you will get tired of looks eventually if they dont interest you mentally