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kitsunerena
I didn't see anything wrong with what Rob was saying, I think you took it the wrong way and made it more of a personal attack. To be able to find dates or boyfriends, you do have to be able to work into a more social sphere otherwise no one will know that you're even looking. I think when I was 13, I tried dating a Canadian friend online and that didn't work out too well since he liked my friend who introduced me to him more. Basically my true first boyfriend happened in 10th grade when I was 15 (friend I had been eating lunch with for a while), and I've dated several others since because of mishaps or just personal differences. It's better not to rush into relationships because people get hurt that way. Also, it's good to be more understanding of others and have patience. Just because you feel lonely at your age now doesn't mean you're "forever alone". That's more for people who become hermits or whatever. Some memes are incorrectly and overly used in my opinion. You'll eventually find someone who's like you or has similar interests and goals, and you'll be happy you waited. Just have to keep trying and improve yourself along the way. Just going to add that saying stuff like "go die" or saying you want to cause violence on others/calling them names doesn't help with making a good impression and showing maturity. It's pretty rude too, but I'm the type to have some social etiquette (not always polite or proper, but I try for the most part). I have light violent tendencies but I reserve those for friends in real life. I've learned that sounding immature online makes people look at you and think you're that way really, which causes avoidance. I even used to do the text talk online for everything, such as "u" for you etc. and typing lotsa things in 1337 (LEET). Looking back, I feel pretty dumb for being that way and newbish. But that's my personal experience and regrets. Take that as you will.
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kitsunerena
I have a lot of younger siblings and stuff so I've learned to be specific and point out stuff as best as I can. Plus I've been through good and bad life experiences when it comes to dating (more negative qualities to online dating really, and not choosing wisely). Also wanted to add this: Everyone is different but it's because of those differences people are unique. Also makes for a difficult time understanding ourselves and others sometimes. ^^;;
masuji
Nov 04, 12 at 10:19am
In regards to this topic Sollexacaptor, Robert was saying some pretty friendly advice and you had to go and be like that is a very anti-social tendency. I had that at your age, but I grew out of it and VERY quickly. You see, there is a certain way that human socializing works, because, like it or not we're just very self-aware animals. You need to learn the way of this socializing and when someone takes something to try and help even if its not what you would like to hear: Sometimes people are being insightful based on what you tell them. As far as you go on the forum you've been causing trouble and picking fights with people which is really angering me. Sure, I may find people annoying at times but I never say "I want to throw you against a wall" I just try to be polite and move on. I'm willing to give you another chance on here because I pity you greatly but you'd be wise to quit this behavior. If you continue to cause this I will have no choice but to contact the webmaster and have him lecture you on proper use of his site. So please, grow out of sociopathic ways or I will take action that nobody here dares to.
machina
Nov 04, 12 at 11:07am
One way to stop being lonely is to stop being mean to people. People might like you more if you do that. I'm starting to think this site is too mature for someone like you.
animeboy
Why is this user's topics so popular all of a sudden? O_o
machina
Nov 04, 12 at 11:12am
I honestly don't know o.o I didn't even notice till you pointed it out.
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metaljester
Nov 04, 12 at 3:07pm
I will as well take action these things are pointless you should not have anger and throw hate for somebody trying to help you I will contact the webmaster if it continues I do know quite a bit about the mind and how it works and I understand the reasoning but you should not do it sollex
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