Clingy

I guess I'd just rather not text a lot and be on the phone for several hours a night. There is not a better feeling in the world than Waking up and spending the whole day together and then putting on your jam jams and sleeping in the same bed with the girl you like to wake up and enjoying a breakfast together. When we have to be apart then i feel our lives need to move on until we are back together. My idea of clinglyness is non stop texting and long long long phone conversations at night.

There is a difference between enjoying being together and being clingy. for me spending time away once in a while and hanging with your friends without the other person is a good thing. "An immature love is wanting to have someone be happy only when you are with them, a mature love is wanting the other person to be happy period." if you know that quote and the show it is from... you rock!!

You can only be with someone for so long before everything they do makes you sick. Taking breaks is crucial to a relationship.

First time I fell in love I was told I was too clingy. Then when I decided to give that same person space, then I was ignoring them. So I don't know about it in this situation. I guess it depends on the person. You may find the person so utterly confused about what they want that they push you away when they didn't really want to. The best way to do it is be respectful of each others space. You don't need to be together every moment of every single day at every single second.

Breaks and "me" time are very important. You can drive your partner nuts if you want to be around them every second of every day, or have to constantly text or call. Everything in moderation is better, just tilt the scales some toward being together for the most part with enough time for yourself and friends/family/etc.

I've been in a few clingy-type relationships and have been that way to some extent myself as well. People learn the most from experience even if it's after repetition.

this topic has always bothered me and I'll explain why. I always see/hear girls say they don't like clingy guys, and everyone has altered explanations of what they consider "clingy", or "good clingy vs bad clingy" for me, I know that most girls would consider me clingy. it baffles me as to why this is a bad thing. it, for me, is only another sign that a guy is seriously into you and would have something that lasts. now, I understand things like constant calling/texting, wondering where you are and who you're with at all times, that sort of clingy is too much, but it's certainly not the worst trait one could have towards their significant other. I just find it frustrating i guess. it seems like Girls always have this idea of an ideal guy whos totally confident, badass, handsome, NOT clingy, etc.. a guy who "plays it cool" for everything, like nothing bothers them or throws them off one way or the other. but they don't realize that all these things are largely traits that under the surface make guys uninterested, uncommited, and even abusive when it comes to relationships. This is generally the type of guy who will cheat on you,too. and then they wonder why they can't find the right one. :/ clingy, to me, is a good thing. I wish I could find a girl who would cling to me. I'd call that a relationship built to last. but again, what the heck do i know.