Looking for a gf or bf :3

Since I'm incredibly jaded and haven't had the best experiences here I personally wouldn't really recommend this site as a means to meet people for a relationship, I've had much more luck literally anywhere else. But that's just me, everyone's experiences are different and the right person for you might be here. Though yes, continuously putting yourself out there is very important and you're going to have to push yourself and work for what you want. Nobody is promised anything in life, especially when it comes to finding love, you're going to have to put in effort. Especially in this day and age where people seem to lack basic social skills. :u

i definitely agree that everyone's experiences are different! i personally came here looking for friends, but i ended up finding someone i genuinely really like. but others have experienced the opposite; they'll come here looking for love and end up finding really good friendships that last a long time. some gain nothing at all. just do your best is all i can say, can't guarantee anything but your chances are gonna rise the more you assert yourself!

Hey look, I don't know your personal life, but trying to find someone to date online is not the best way to do it especially the age we are at (it doesn't hurt tho). What you should be doing is socialize with people around you, find local friends, join clubs, play recreational sports, do some community service, ect. you will meet some great people, there is only so much people can do online. The best way I found out to fight depression it to find friend groups. It puts a lot of pressure on your partner if you don't have anyone else to help you cope. I am not saying you should stop looking for a partner, but you should be socializing and making friends you have so much of your life to look forward to, there is no reason to stress about not having a partner.

I also think the best way to find a match is through your passions. Being passionatein something is always very attractive trait and shows off that you have depth. I wouldn't really mind not having a relationship right now though, you should be just improving on yourself do others would want you, instead of searching for them yourself

i have things i am passionate about. game development and anime, everyone i have asked irl have rejected me and thought i was werd then the next day started dating my best friend.... well not everyone that only happened 4 times. made me despise and envy my friends. the other 3 were just not interested.... my hobbies are usually done alone so idk how to find anyone.... daym i sound sad xD

You can keep improving yourself but don't do it for women. They're not doing it for you. 10 years from now when you've made something of yourself, the women your age will be well below the standards you had to begin with, they won't be grateful at all to the fact that you spent your young adult life struggling to be worthy of them, and if they don't have children already they will probably be career women who think they don't want children until it's too late. This probably isn't what you want to hear, but I'm just telling you how it is these days. If you wanted a normal life with a happy wife and children to make your parents proud, your best chance is in high school, your second best chance is in college, and your third best chance is to kill yourself and hope there's a heaven. If I were your age, I would start going to church even if you don't believe in any of it. Don't go too traditional or it will only be old people there.