Thoughts?

A person should know what's right or wrong. A person should know that anything he says can be understood as good and bad. One can't treat someone however they want without consequences. What's your thoughts on the matter?

If a person says a lot of different things for no reason to someone else and that other person gets offended, it's the fault of the one who said it all. Even if it's not intentional, people should choose their words carefully instead saying something that could hurt others. I don't really care about anyone's opinion in that because I know it's true.

@Baka - Over a year ago I ended up hurting my only friend for no reason. We didn't talk for 6 months until I realized I did something I shouldn't have and I apologized and managed to patch things up with him. When we started talking again, we agreed that if one of us did or said something the other one didn't like, we'd tell them. Half a year later, at the start of this year, I couldn't take it anymore. He went too far in our conversations by saying stuff that really hurt me. I know he's smart enough to see what's good or bad, but he just doesn't care. He thinks everything he says is all a joke and everything's fine after while. The last time we spoke really crossed the line. I avoided him for almost a week because of it until he realized something was up. He came to my house and confronted me about it. Thing is that I can't handle confrontation very well, plus, the type of person he is when he's serious. He gives me either difficult questions that I don't even know how to answer or he just answers with a question I simply can't answer. Because of that I froze and wasn't even able to tell him what I really had to say. I could remind him of the promise we made, but he'd just forgotten all about it. If I had mentioned it, he would've stubbornly accused me for something I had done. Thing is, I tried to keep our promise the best I could. I was patient with him, but he made it too hard for me. The entire thing ended up with him accusing me for being a jerk for no reason. He doesn't realize that the things he says can have huge impact on others. If I ever mentioned that, he would most likely punch me flying over to next year. That's why I'm bothered with this. The only friend I had couldn't see what was alright and not alright to say. He never thought through anything before he said something to me. I tried the best I could and I was very patient with him, but I had to let him go because I couldn't handle all the harassment anymore.

@kil i dont think either of you are bad but maybe you two just don't click together. because you both have your own way of doing things and i think its wrong to expect someone to change just for you, instead you BOTH should have been accepting of each other and BOTH made compromises. you see, yes your friend made you hurt, and yes you should be honest and let them know. but accusing your friend of not caring and saying he doesnt know he hurts others was mean man. of course he cares if he thinks of you as a friend. so its natural that he would get upset honestly at this point it seems neither of you are considering each others feelings. or wondering how your words could effect each other. (╥﹏╥)