Making others happy

I am responsible for my own happiness, and sadness This does not mean I can avoid suffering, but it means I can remain unmoved by it. In Buddhism there exists the level or concept of an Arhat, if one attains the level of Arhat it simply means that this person is unmoved by external circumstance There is no reaction, only action This is simple but also profound Suffering is still there, how can it not be does not suffering come from having a body? how can we suffer without a body? But! I am not my Suffering