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I read an article not to long ago about this young couple on a cruise ship (like 15 yr olds) with their parents. and the girl was always hanging out with this bass player of a band that played there, and one day she disappeared. apparently the night before her boyfriend was talking to him and told him sorry about your girlfriend, and she wasn’t seen at all since. pretty sure it was ended up to be a human trafficking thing. these things are messed up :/

Well, I am busy. I study, work and got free time plans plus need sleep. Only because I'm able to log in for a short time doesn't mean I got lots of time in my hands. And when I give time here, it takes away time from my other things.

Do you believe of the phrase if you love something you got to let it go and if it comes back it's meant to be, or do you believe fully in if you love something you keep going for it.

That's a tricky one... Love, huh? I honestly don't find the topic that comfortable but I'll answer anyway. About the phrase, no, I don't believe in it since human hearts waver and change all the time. Even if you love someone by all your heart, that'll change once both changed enough for it to turn to infection of each other. That's why many couples fight or divorce, even if loved each other in the beginning. Letting go, well, each person got different point of view of it. Someone might see it as they weren't good enough and don't fight because that's dead end, as someone might get pathetic and not able to accept it and so on... Each situation and person is different, hence I don't believe in such phrases. I believe letting go of love means you didn't love them or wasn't strong enough to hold on, it also can turn out as offend towards other one in some situations. BUT that only is if the other person is willing to be with you, as feel the same and so. It's different if the other one doesn't feel the same, don't want to try and reject or give any signal it won't work out or they're not interested, then you better let go if you love that person, because you should realize they're no item to own or force to feel the same, they're a human as you and got own free will which sadly many people can't understand, try to own the person... Anyway, back to topic. I believe each relationship has it's end, just like beginning. That fire rarely burn forever, eventually calms down, people distance as that fire die and they keep changing, as mentioned earlier, relationship get downfalls, get infected. This clearly tells I don't believe in true love that last forever, either, since I don't believe it's logically possible. Unless only physical... Or no, wouldn't last either and unhappy, unhealthy one. Did this answer your question(s)?

There's no "right" or "wrong" answer in this. It's only about different point of views and opinion, which all are right to oneself. This reminded me of how people soooo very often try to force their ideologies/opinions on other, ugh... So pathetic. (I mean overall, not you so don't misunderstand, I'm not trying to be rude, offend or so on.) "Giving the thing you love a different place", is a funny phrase... In this you have to remember each possible million different situation, doesn't really work in many than a few nice ones, but what about the not nice ones? Did you also think about what it can cause? As giving hope by being friends if rejected, they might not be able to move on, they'll suffer more and so on... I know since my best friend fell in love with me. Sometimes, it's better to distance for giving someone's heart heal. Sometimes breaking a heart is necessary, it's not a bad thing since by that the person will grow as human, find oneself again and change form. Breaking is necessary for growing as person. You can't always act selfish by your own ideologies and force it on other, try to not break and be kind, it might hurt and cause bigger damage, only because you fear hurting, getting distant or any such selfish feeling. Your "not believing in your capacities to deal with situations", isn't right with everyone as you think, it differ from person to person. Plus I could return those words to forcing friendzone on a person that got feelings and haven't given the time to break and heal on own, or simply not yet ready for it. "being too proud" isn't true with everyone either, there's hard choices and different situations and people, still. Sometimes "letting go" is the smart choice, not talk about pride. I know since I loved someone with all my heart but had to let go, since all he did was break me down. All stories and relationships aren't happy, kind, sweet and nice, I need to remind of that. "Friendzone" is only possible if the two are friendly in that way, get along as could be friends. I speak through lessons I learned and seen. I'm not proud of it but I have break many hearts and my heart has been broken too. I know very well how awful, selfish people can be and not all stories are like fairy tales, actually only a very small amount end like it. I seen other people's stories too, not just mine. Your is only one of million situations that can be both "right" and "wrong", depending of point of view, situation, emotions and the people. Please keep it in mind.