Empicca's Territory

To clarify I did not insinuate a member of your family deserved to be cheated upon or was at fault in that case. What I referred to was the general mentality people of both genders take towards getting married when that isn't what one or the other wants. As yourself mentioned before, yes society in most cultures; whether Asian, American, European, or Middle Eastern; pressures people to bond as an expected family unit. The man is supposed to marry the woman and build a happy home to create the next foundation for a new generation to prosper from. This however is an ideal that can create its own set of challenges for those that don't have the means or opportunities to make this concept work as intended. Either way, your cousin did nothing wrong. Just don't burden yourself with the idea that most men are unreliable or that you've got to have a picture perfect relationship to be happy. As you've proven, you have the means to build your own foundation. Any person who you're comfortable with would be grateful to have a relationship with a dependable person like you. That's all, be well!

@amarantha It's terrible that happened to your cousin, sound's like she didn't deserve that. People suck. Don't let it influence you to the point you never try to find romance again tho.

Sorry to hear that happened with your cousin, she sounds like a very nice woman and I am sorry to hear her ex-husband did that to her. But, you should try to remember Gab and Lewd-Chad’s advice ^-^, it is pretty solid my love. I understand how it feels to be worried or afraid to do something because seeing what other people have done or could do, but what others do shouldn’t stop us from enjoying life and the love it can bring. You’ll find the right one when the time comes darling <3, best wishes to your cousin and the family

I struggle with why so many people cheat. I think there should be more psychological studies done about it. I can pretty easily identify sociopathic behaviors in people, but sometimes people who cheat would be those that you wouldn't think would do it. Some people hide their darkness better than others. To me, it's an unforgivable offense. I would never do it. Even flirting with another person is like being careless with a can of gasoline.

@gabriel_true @lewd_araragi @wei_ying Thank you guys. It’s a tough process considering I have my own trauma about it and these days good ones are rare. Because of this fear this leads to not so good behavior as well outta me whenever Im in a relationships (ex: extreme jealousy/anxiety etc etc) But every day Im trynna be better, because I also wanna give my best for my future partner and family. Its a big world. I hope we all find the love we deserve! ❤️❤️❤️ @verucassault I agree! Thats the same w what happened to my cousin rn. We did not expect for the husband to do it. They been together for like 6 years without any issues about it, man has no history w cheating nor dating tons of women, man was respectful asf to both fams and well loved by everyone and when we all learned about it we were all in denial at first.

628AM ( r a n d o m ) ~ 6 years ago I witnessed my first Oblation Run. So, Oblation Run is also called the Ritual Dance of the Brave. Basically it’s male members of this fraternity who run naked inside campus to protest against the university and country’s govt. system. Before they end the event, naked participants would give roses to the audience. I received one back then. Twas awkward asf, but I know the whole event was for a good cause.

@lewd_araragi IKR! But some male participants use it even as a platform to propose or like ask someone to be their GF. Hahaha. Idk if thats sweet or what. Hahahaha XD

@amarantha Ohhhh that's the secret, you just have to be naked when you propose!! Imma try that next time, thanks for the tip! XD