help me out here?

Soulxevans I know exactly what you mean. That happens to me all the time. I am also tired of playing games. I wish people were more up front. Sometimes i wonder if is just best to go with the slutty girls in the club. At least they are honest with them selves and otherse. You know what to expect. Is just I feel I would hate my self for being with someone who doesn't care about me and all they want is a night or two of fun and pleasure. Many things about the games get on my nerves and sometimes I get to the point I just don't care anymore.

don't be clingy plain in simple, that is why two of my friends i broke up a long time ago, i asked her why recently out of curiosity(like 3 years after they broke up lol) and she talked about even tho he was one of the nicest guys she knew he was just to clingy. you need to have a life other that her. makes plans with your friends and tell her about them so she knows ahead of the time.

Im just saying from the girl point of view most girls are like that but for me talking to a guy for a month or two weeks (it has happen to me)and say the love me? Im like that going to fast or get mad I dont text soon cuz im busy doing something thats just way to clingy

Hey as long as they say they are doing something I can understand that completely and though it can happen it is very rare that anyone would fall in love that fast they do indeed need to slow it down but are probably use to not having that many dates or something ie desperation and they think they are in love so they get attached super quick and think if they say it the girl will stay with them for ever ie ideal love story or what ever but really it just back fires on them and dose the exact thing they didn't want to happen witch was let the girl get away.

The way I see it Rosie is not so bad. If you talk to them about what they did wrong they can take it as a learning experience. If you bring it up at the beginning it could stop it from happening to you again. It must mean that you given guys that have no experience a chance which is a good thing. Is just not always easy being the teacher is all.

sorry Endlessknight i was kinda confuse on what your saying but i got the idea of it. so ill take it as a complement lol thank you:D

as i see it some young people rush into "love". but to me what some people are calling "love" is not real love. real love is not "omg i love you baby, you are perfect<3(recent example from someone in my school!!" after only like a week together. love is something completely different than that(at least in my mind), love is when two people care for each other on another level, it is when they are your best friend, when you can see them for their faults and love their faults because it is a part of who they are, where you two don't need to say a word to know how they feel, but will say it anyway.