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skaterclown13
seems like every girl i start hanging out with first week or so goes great then everytime stuff always starts going down hill what am i doing wrong we hang out have fun and i take her home and make sure she gets home safe we talk, text hang out do whatever then all off sudden all that stops, seriously what am i doin wrong any help would be appreciated feel free to ask any questions i could use some feedback i live with family but can barely talk to them because of work would really like somebody's opinon on the matter, thank you
rosie
Aug 20, 12 at 4:20pm
Hmmm like dont text them all the time let them text u first sometime thats how u knw that they want to talk to you dont text or call all the time if u do they would probably think ur annoying and desperate an clingy an most girl dont like that for now thats all I can think of hope this help any way
skaterclown13
thank you, i thought that myself thing is though we texted first about the same amount then we would hang out but lately its been pretty much dead i havent even tried to text her in a few days maybe i should just call it a loss with this one im not even gunna try to get ahold of her until she tries to get ahold of me at least that way i will know if she is still "interested" i guess.
rosie
Aug 20, 12 at 6:36pm
if its been a whole week or 2 then she not that interested but im hope im wrong wish you luck and by the way love your costume in ur default picture
skaterclown13
been about a week but i dont know she texts threw her ipod and no internet when she is at her moms house which is were she is supposedly staying at right now but i dont know imma just wait it out and see what happens, and thank you that is my first cosplay ive ever done or made so far glad you like it :)
rosie
Aug 21, 12 at 1:11pm
You did a great job:)
animeplussoccer
you two are just starting out if you comeon a little too interested early on is bad because the way the female mind works is they lose interest on you its all a big game even those who say they are past all that its bs never trust what women say when a girl says everything is fine it probably itsent. they r all like that trust me, so act busy show no real interest do things like before u even met her whatever it is that u do, give yourself space if you been the one always starting the conversations first stop doign that, have her be the first to approach you either by phone text whatever it is that youl do. She will respect and value you more once she sees your not on her palm alredy.
skaterclown13
thanks for the feedback guys, were supposed to going out to fair this weekend i will see how it goes
soulxevans
@ rosie I hate those games people just need to be straight up I have to play the games my self but I really wish I could just be like "hey we like each other I'm not desperate I'm not clingy I just like you. I enjoy talking to you so I'm gunna try and get a hold of you when I can because it's something I enjoy doing is that so bad?" I'm sure most people would agree. As for your situation skateclown I don't claim to understand girls but they can change in a heart beat. 1 min they love you the next they are pissed at you and won't tell you why. I don't get it my self I've just come to except that it's what happens.
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