Must haves

Intellect Uninhibited feelings and emotions Honest A potential fourth would be willingness to try new things.

1) Respectful towards me (plus my morals) and himself (plus his morals). Saying you pray every day, but then be spiteful or judgmental towards others is one way of showing you are disrespectful and inconsistent with your values. 2) Swimming and water survival skills. An experience in freediving is a plus. If he can beat my personal depth record on the first attempt, then I'm already sold. 3) Potential to match my drive and passion for doing things. A dreamer as well as a doer, and not just one or the other.