Don't really like myself.......

Pretty much what the topic title says. I'm obese,unintelligent,uninteresting,unattractive, my life's very repetitive, and the list goes on. day after day it's the same thing, I mean why did fate choose me to have the Fat Gene from my father?( I tried losing weight but it is NOT as easy as it seems at ALL.Plus nowadays I'm really depressed and lack motivation to really do anything) Why did Fate choose me to have a learning disability?(I have a shitty special diploma from high school,now I can't go to universities and good schools unless I get a G.E.D. which I'm working on right now. It's just painful going to that boring community center every Tue,Wed,Thur, plus I'm not motivated enough to study hard and fear of failing the G.E.D. test) I mean, this is why I don't think God loves all of his children, He brings them into the world knowing full well they didn't ask and knowing full well what'll happen to them. Sigh I don't have many friends either,I never had a GF before in my 24 years of existance, and the list goes on. I know this topic seems similar to my last one but I'm just really down and out. I really wished I was never born. I hate life.

dude you got to get positive. I'm not even gunna touch the God thing cuzz I'm pretty sure that's gunna start a huge flame war and I'd rather not deal with that right now. As for the other issues first of nothing comes easy if it's losing weight or getting your ged it takes time and effort and that's what makes it worth wile in the end. I use to get down on my self I'm dyslexic fat and to this day haven't had a girl friend or at least that's the way I use to see it and talk about my self. I was going to community college it sucked I hated high school and it was basically the same thing all over again but over here in cali everyone has to get a ged before they move on to their other classes so your not the only one. If you want to lose the wait the easiest way is to eat right and run or ride a bike a lot lots of cardio less carbs.your other option is to stop caring and work with what you got. Dress nice show confidence and make sure to just keep your self looking good. As for me I traded over to art school last year and I like it a lot better then community college. Given I still have to do my ged but it's more art oriented and I'm also taking drawing and computer classes with it. Also I stopped caring what people think and started to learn to like my self the way I am. I'm a nice responsible dude I tell my self any girl would be lucky to have me especially over all the douche bags I know out there. That helps because I believe it. That's all I can really give you I mean I still try and work out and eat right but I'm trying to concentrate on bulking up rather then lose wait. I figure I'll kill two birds with one stone and get muscles that will also burn my fat. I hope this helped. Best thing to do is be positive and confident. stay cool Soulxevans

I know how you feel man I have felt like that many times in the past 6 months... An all it did was make me really mad, hate myself, I wanted to disappear with saying a word cuz I had no one to turn to a I couldn't take it anymore...

Don't let the fear of failing stop you man. Sometimes in life, things are just harder for some people. Other people have it easy with their good looks and in born talent. But you know, you just have to find the brighter side in things and discover what's good in you. Work harder than most(kinda like rock lee from naruto). I mean, atleast you got limbs. Nick Vujicic had less limbs and he's still happy with life. cheer up dude things might get better if you try thinking positive. At your state you don't need a girlfriend either. Love yourself first before loving others. As the book "The secret" states positive thinking attracts positive things and vice versa. Goodluck with that GED test whatever that is. :)

@Ashi and Tin Not any better TBH. The only difference is I'm not as open about it, especially since meaner members are crawling around here.