Foreplay vs Sex (safe or fun?)

Making out leads to foreplay which leads to sex usually in my experience. Men do not need much to get going usually but women sometimes do need a little more arousal time for the best comfort. BC pills + condoms are the best protection from pregnancy but BC pills are very bad for women's bodies in the long term. IUD can be a viable alternative to hormone pills. My last LTR used a IUD and we had sex without a condom nearly daily for 3 years without an issue. STDd are always a concern because condoms do not protect against everything. Safe is a relative term, you have to gauge the risks and accept the consequences or do not play.

I'd say it's all fun, but it comes down to intent and responsibility. If you're not ready for sex that's fine or not really in to the other person but still wanna have some fun so be it. Diseases, kids, and your partners feelings should be taken in to consideration. Both acts are intimate. Know what's worst then having a kid when you're not in a position to support one? Having said child with someone you don't like. Worst than that, an infection or disease that can't be cured. How bout that Stage 5 clinger? Who thought, that little heated make out shesh turned in to an awkward wandering finger bang and dry handy could be so stressful? Like darku said accept the consequences or don't even play!

Getting pregnants way harder than you think, do your research its not that hard. I mean you shouldnt rely on this site for that kind of stuff.

Well yeah it can be vice versa... But have to be mutual