Any gay or bi otakus here?

It's hard for people to tell that I'm bisexual because I like flirting with women and they're usually a lot more fun to hang around. I might be more sexually attracted to men, but all the gay men I've gone on a date with... well the moment they open their mouths is the moment I want to leave. The first thing they usually do is start bitching or comparing me to other guys. I've never dated or even kissed another man because I can't get past how annoying some of them are. I feel you, Sanfi. Everyone expects gay men to act feminine. I might be bisexual, but I'm still a man. I still talk, walk, and hold myself up like a man. Just because I'm not feminine doesn't mean I'm not bisexual.

@Lenny Every time your profile picture comes by, I'm again astounded that you're not 23 or something. You look really young ^^ @Sunbae I really get what you're saying. With me it also has to do with the demisexuality. In general it seems easier for me to form a strong bond with a woman than with a man for some reason. Without the strong bond, nothing could develop for me, so it would be of no use. That's probably the only reason I'm doubtful about even calling myself bisexual. Still, I don't really care about what it's called. I know what I'm like and I'm perfectly content with that ^-^ @Dae My parents had always been very open about the whole sexuality thing. They made it clear that a bf and a gf would both be fine for my sister and me to come home with. Still, I don't think they really expected it. They seemed surprised, but not in a bad way, though

@Dae That can be really hard. Personally, I don't know what I'd have done. When I told my parents, I wasn't sure myself either, but I knew my parents would accept it no matter what

It took me around three years and I knew what their reaction would be. There's no good or bad when it comes to coming out. You'll just have to trust that they will understand. Honestly, I wouldn't know how to react when they don't understand and try to 'talk you out of it', though

@Sanfi Why thank you ^_^ My age really gets me down so thanks for cheering me up.