Finding a Girlfriend

I know I don´t respond to many threats here but I´m going to say something to this one. :3 ^^^ To you. I appreciate your intentions and your advice. :) Usually anxious people know that they have this issue. :) To speak out obvious advices out loud usually doesn´t help because most of the people are not stupid and know how they should act but they just can´t do it. There are plenty of methods how to get rid of this. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- My personal experience of getting asked out: If you want to talk to me and ask me out and I have really no interests in you I will make this quick and give you the option to get away from me. I will be nice, you can talk to me but if I tell you to step away. Do it. If you insist to understand or get rude I will be rude too and let you face the consequences. Even worse: You try to act like a friend and try to get close to me just because you want me as your girlfriend or want to have sex with me. Seriously fuck you then. It´s the worst thing you can do. And last but not least even more worse than that: Rapists. If I am that drunk and you try to be the "nice" guy and force me to sex you are the worst of the worst. That´s the worst way to approach a woman or a man by acting nice and force me to sex after I am drunk enough. I will make you regret it. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- There are many ways to talk to a girl. Make yourself confident about the situation and try to read the person in front of you. <3 The best is to figure out your own way.

This is for everyone...if it will show up :) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0

I'd say don't rely on alcohol. At all. It's honestly like using training wheels on a bike for your entire life, or using crutches just cos your legs aren't that strong. Think about it this way -- when will having good social skills NOT help you in life? At the end of the day, if you can't be interesting enough without alcohol, then that's almost a little bit sad. The thing is you CAN get out there and you CAN be a real lady-killer, but if you can't do it without having to drink until all your inhibitions are gone then that's probably not the right way to do it. Train yourself instead; get out there and talk to people you aren't even romantically interested in, but get used to talking to new people, being engaging and interesting, and also being a good listener. It'll pay off, trust me.

Umm I had a friend who was s hut in the same and he worked on being able to speak up by going to more public gaming events and get togethers. He became a bit of a troll at these events but he became more outspoken and from there he was able to turn the trolling into nice conversation (with some smacks across the head from me of course). Push the envelope. So it takes a little bit of confidence and common sense for the love of god.