what am i even doing...?

@maria Frankly, you are very mature for your age. Which is a good thing so props to you. Don't let your generation influence you. And well... I assumed she's max 16.

Well, is not like we are being rude to you specifically, the adults here have enough patience to try and tell you some advice I guess... The difference is that you are not accepting any of it. Doesn't that mean that you are not even suffering through the things you said? If a person were truly that depressed they would probably seek for help and advices but in your twisted mind it is better finding that someone else is suffering than to help you out. You're a woman already, get a hold of yourself this problems are problems that a kid on puberty has, not a 25 year old. Not saying adults don't suffer depression either but most of them seek for help otherwise they would already be dead. Your age and already being this pitiful when most people know real goals that attract happiness are something that takes years if not decades to accomplish? Is shameful to see. This is why this thread seems fake.

Constructive criticism and conversations talking badly about someone in their face are two different things though. I didn't mind what you were doing at first but on the 3rd page it started getting out of hand.

You have all the time of the world to express yourself, this kind of pressure shouldn't do anything to you. Just answer on how you truly see things, that way you won't be judged, trust me.

As you progress in life, you will find your actions to be judged more and more so. This is undeniable, even those who claim that people shouldn't judge, are among the heaviest judgers themselves. It's about being decent towards someone's thoughts, behaviours, successes and claims that makes conversation a lot more pleasant. What has been done here was mean spirited, even if one could say that the person in question is behaving strangely for her age.