Do you consider yourselves attractive?

Not in the slightest, The only thing i can offer is personality and loyalty, with the personality part not being that great either.

I'm not ugly no. I consider myself pretty average in the looks dept. I'm probably about 25lbs heavier than I should be, but it's just a matter of losing it by staying committed to exercising and eating better which I actually have started to make an effort to do.

Good shit Cecil. I've only very recently decided to cut soda out entirely. It's been really hard, though.

Cutting soda is a first good step. In the past 5 months, I've probably had maybe three cans and that's due more to it being the only beverage option when I was out or with friends. I'm 99% water and milk (mainly for cereal) with the occasional juice. I didn't lose any weight cutting it out because I still wasn't exercising much but I also stopped gaining when I did eliminate it completely. I've been about a week into my daily working out and it's been a bit tough to start getting back into that groove again, but so far I feel a lot better and that I'm actually starting to do something about things.