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lynxware
@Yu- Who are your referring to when you say "outing"? ritsuioko23, lovely_complexities, Or the person on his Page? Just trying to figure out what you meant.
basedsempai
I think male otakus are just socially awkward and don't understand social queues to conversation and they feel like they're being lead on. You can usually tell if a girl is into you or is just outgoing in the matter of a few exchanges of words. These okatus most likely get rejected in real life and when they get rejected here on a site that mostly everyone has the same interests, I think they feel very hurt.
metaljester
Oh I meant ritsuioko and another member along with a few others here awhile back, I was refraining from saying anything to not drag up any old drama, but one of the members involved was saya,
lynxware
I see, To be honest I usually don't get involved in these types of posts. But seeing stuff like this brings the maturity of the site down. Really this is childish stuff. But i understand people don't always handle things the way they should. Personally i find it even hard to connect with people on here. I'm guessing its the age difference. =/
metaljester
Yes indeed I kinda prioritize them at times to deal with some of the issues if I can, although I am usually rushing with it, however the one thing that would help is if we would stop using operant conditioning on those who seek attention by employing the whole their trolls and that's it ignore, That will only drive them to do it more in the end. I understand the age thing since there is not a lot of older people on here compared to the younger ones, overall myself I just pop on to chat with people and as listed above. Perhaps if somebody finds me interesting that too,
jikokun
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lynxware
@Yu- I usually jump on to spread my wisdom lol. Really people who troll will always find someone to upset. I find the best way to deal with them is speaking the truth. What i said about it showing his insecurities was true. I wasn't being mean or trying to belittle him. Just showing him how his actions are viewed by others.Let face it we all have insecurities. However purposely upsetting people to make you feel better about yourself is uncalled for.
metaljester
@Jiko Please tell me you aren't going to eat that whole bag of popcorn even with friends the health side effects, @lynx I agree he does have insecurities as we all, but mainly it was just due to the whole matter of other things that have reoccurred with that member which point me into the direction that he simply isn't here for attention, Lastly always true, although expected typically on dating sites where emotions get stirred more often then not luckily it isn't as bad as eharmony and other sites though,
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