I really need someone to talk to , a friend who can help me get over my misery, no trolling please

Well , I d say I m in a really bad phase of my life. I have no real friends, no job and mostly no self-confidence and love for my self. To say a few things about me I have always been good with studying, having friends was never eaay for me because of my really poor social skills and the same is true about relationships even though I have really tried hard to. I guess I just need someone who can understand my situation and hopefully give me some good advice. Thanks for taking the time to read this.

Welcome toradora92. Kick off your shoes and relax. Read through some threads then share your thoughts, you will find interesting peoples to talk to.

hey tora! i would be happy to listen to you and give advice on anything that's on your mind so feel free to send me a message whenever. i can't stand feeling lonely either so i'd like to help those who feel like so u3u

hey man I was in your shoes not too long ago. I'd been out of a job for months on end, dealing with my parent's separation, just lost my girlfriend and only emotional support I'd had, felt anxious leaving the house so hanging out with friends was pretty much out. Honestly the only thing that kept me going was the hope of changing things and getting back with my ex and pretty much rescuing a needy cat off of the street. I won't lie, a lot of days the only thing that kept me from just completely shutting down was the thought of what would happen to my two cats without me. Not about my parents, my sister, or even my ex girlfriend I was still madly in love with. But things change slowly. First I found a job, then I started working out again, and building up my confidence. I found out my ex girlfriend is now seeing someone else, so idk if a switch or something flipped in my head but I started doing the online dating thing hard, because in all honesty I'm still not 100% comfortable hanging out with my friends, idk if that sounds weird, but anyways I somehow managed to convince this girl into giving me a shot and who knows what the future will hold. My point in telling you all of this is that despite how bad things may seem, regardless of what obstacles you find yourself facing and no matter how insurmountable the odds may seem, you have to find something to keep on struggling through life for. Life isn't easy, it's not supposed to be I think. It's all about clawing your way through and doing what you have to do to survive. Even on this website full of strangers people are willing and ready to help you. All that you have to do now is put one foot in front of the other and believe that you can make a change. Best of luck, message me if you wanna talk some more or need help.

Hey guys, thank you all for your support. I m really touched that even people who do not know are that much willing to help. I have to say I m glad to be a part of this little maiotaku community ^^