Cold on the outside, warm and fuzzy on the inside... anyone else find that at all attractive?

Lol well, Tsundere to me is more like Fiery Volcano on the outside, soft and sweet on the inside XD I still like a good Tsundere caricature though. Aisaka Taiga ftw. https://38.media.tumblr.com/8d2deadb4562284d20b3a04562eb5e73/tumblr_mvpjvqDAY51s05l8po1_r1_500.gif

Just for future reference. http://fc01.deviantart.net/fs70/f/2012/366/2/d/the_dere_types_by_omg2crybaby-d5pvtl9.png

Oh, lol. I thought you meant Tsundere. But whatever! Kuudere are cool too. :3

How to explain... It's like this, they act cold, but you know that they're not really like that inwardly, and so you have this desire to help them come out a little bit and enjoy themselves. As time goes on, you realize more and more that they really are intelligent, likable people with cool interests who are just either misunderstood or are more honest with themselves and others than many may find comfortable! But that honesty is really attractive to me. And idk, I think it's cute when someone seems cold/distant on the outside but secretly they are really compassionate and like you a lot X3 Hopefully something of that made sense, I'm bad at explaining things x_x

But you don't know that they are like that though. Usually the first interaction would be cold but you continue to get to know her anyways? I don't know if I could deal with that.

That's true man, that's true... not like I haven't been rejected before either lol XD But I met someone really great by just being as friendly and open as I could with her despite her preferring to be alone and seeming emotionally distant. Of course, I can tell when someone just plain doesn't like me most of the time... that's different :P I'm more talking about people who are socially awkward or just "loners" in general, who need someone to bring them up a little bit. As an aside, I don't purposefully seek out anyone like this either, I just think it's attractive :P

I have a friend that actually pursued to talk to me even after me treating him kind of cold, he brushed it off claiming it was shyness. He really tried and now I trust him, he gives the same description about me that you do about girls like that. I'm that type of girl, there are normal emotions I don't get and I'm brutally honest. I know for a fact most people may find me boring or others just don't feel ok knowing the truth. Hopefully, this personality has gained me really good friends. So if I find someone like that I think I would understand tho I'm not attracted to people similar to me in terms of coldness.

Is being shy considered cold? I always thought the act of being cold towards someone was pretty much ignoring them and having little to no emotions expressed towards others. I guess I would classify being shy as being nervous around people, hard to communicate your feelings with others/opening up? Maybe I was quick to judge the actual meaning of cold.