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How to approach "Asian" women?

basedsempai
@Ancient_Reaper Well if I ever go to china, I will owe it to you for the knowledge haha
its_saya
It's fine, all I have to say is don't fetishize it and act like a few people on here in the sense of going 'oh look a Japanese girl, I finally found my true love, we can watch anime and eat sushi and wear kimonos.' That gets old real fast.
basedsempai
@Saya LOL preach it! I think I just want something different than your typical American. I'm still sorta skeptic with the whole online flirting thing though, usually do all flirting in real life so this is a new experience for me which I'm all for.
its_saya
Well, I'm sure you'll get your chance.
jikokun
Probably the same way you approach any woman... Just don't act stupid, obnoxious, or the stereotypical "American-who-lusts-over-an-Asian-girlfriend".
reddwin
Apr 27, 15 at 6:46am
As an asian female in america, i suggest you treat us like any other girl that would strike your fancy?? we don't want to be treated like we're strangely different because honestly, that means you're trying too hard to appeal to a specific culture, and possibly adhering to sterotypes like asians are more docile or something (because I personally don't blink twice when it comes to kicking people's ass). The best suggestion I can give is to be yourself, as cliche as it sounds. All girls, including asians, want an honest man and not a faker targetting a specific group.
arazno
I agree to Jikoshy and Redd. Just like any other Girl/Woman as well. They AREN'T!! a special subspecies in the Female Gender, which are treated different.
basedsempai
@Jikoshy Thanks for putting it bluntly, maybe I'm thinking too hard into the subject and just need to look @ it from another perspective. I appreciate your advice! @Redd True, you bring up a lot of really good points and I thank you for that. I am probably over thinking the whole topic and looking @ it from another point of view is really nice. I appreciate you taking time and answering me =D
jikokun
Np, I am a blunt person, most people mistaken that for being rude (which I wasn't, as Im glad you noticed). But yeah, like Redd said, treat her like a normal girl, with respect and honesty, and if she's interested, things will work out. :)
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