What does a girl look for in a guy?

just be yourself but with confidence and you will hook up with some one most of the females i dated I was not trying to get/find a girlfriend but I guess they liked something about me cause it happened and still friends with most of them.

nods Kohagura. Everyone ticks a little differently. I have found in my travels some women ultimately if not subconsciously seek someone who is capable to provide, protect, and help create a family. Personality and smarts trump looks and money a fair amount of the time, it just depends on the parties involved. Kohagura there is no good version of the friendzone IMHO save a few instances. If they are hanging out with you and not ultimately really wanting you more intimately all the time they are just a friend. It can be a self inflicted condition for some while the other is totally unaware.

Yea dizzyluv, being yourself is the good way and always have been throughout my time so far. However, being myself kinda put me in a big disadvantage to even get into a relationship, just being friends or companions for a little bit. Even talking to other online but doesn't really put them together, which I'm experiencing right now, not communicating in this forum. From what I see, communication play a big role to get it started. Also finding the right topic to discuss between them, right interest, personality, job (of course), and being able to see the future of themselves. I'm wasn't one of the noticeable guys, even though I do my best to present myself during my days in high school, no followers, not much as a team player as expected. I think I may be considered as a introvert, which sucks. So, I don't really present myself more than others. Me right now I just go to work and go home every day. From where I am right now, less likely any girl will find me.

Personally I get offended really easily from alpha males. None of my friends seem to be fans either... one claims herself to be a lesbian(was bi before) because she's sick of the whole "competitive" and "egotistical" side of males, and could only ever find herself attracted to gay males(kind of a running thing, that every guy she falls for ends up being gay). xD

It all depends, some women want something while others want something else. Sometimes it's hard to know, you gotta just keep trying not to try? it will just happen if it happens. There's a guy for every girl and a girl for every guy.