honest people!

I think if you're not going to disclose everything up front, which isn't that big a deal, don't mislead people or like lead them on.

Being to honest means no 2nd date. Girls like to be told what they want to hear. It's sad but, this tool at my work has had more gf a in the last year than I e had my whole life. He told me he just tells them what they want to hear.

The longer you wait to tell the truth the harsher the break up I don't tell anyone about what is troubling me (and I mean ANYONE) would that count for honesty or trust

I entered into two different relationships in both cases the girls held back the fact that they were interested in someone else. Both situations ended in failure the first one ended badly with her cheating on me. The second although we never became official still felt like she cheated. That's what I get for trusting someone who cheated before. Advice I can give don't trust cheaters; once a person cheats they are likely to do it again. Honesty is what keeps a relationship together. However, it doesn't build attraction. You only do that by being out going, witty, funny and clever. Still when you do start to hit it off and you're being serious or discussing topics always be honest because a person should stay for you not for a mask you put on.

I don't personally think humans are really hardwired for monogamy. Not to say I'm for condoning cheating on a significant other, but you know, the idea of being in a relationship and feeling attraction for someone else I don't think that's a big deal. Of course, that's something that should be discussed with your partner is you're in a relationship and are actually developing feelings beyond that initial attraction. But yeah, communication is key is basically what I'm getting at

Communication wasn't the issue in this case. But I do feel you shouldn't flirt or start something with someone when you are interested in another. Not sure what you would call it but if it was a guy wouldn't you say player?