Do guys like it when girls ask them out first?
      mariahaise @mariahaise
        
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        Do guys like it when girls ask them out first?
    
    mariahaise @mariahaise
    I want to know if I can ask this guy out or to know how to make him notice I like him.
  
      xrobb @uniqueguy
        
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    xrobb @uniqueguy
    not sure how to make someone notice you but if you like him then ask him out... you got nothing to lose
  
      ฅ(=^・ェ・^=)ฅ Vintage_Neko @vampire_neko
        
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    ฅ(=^・ェ・^=)ฅ Vintage_Neko @vampire_neko
    It depends on the guy but I like assertive/aggressive girls because I'm shy. I have fantasies about being pounced on or pushed against a wall and molested. But I'm probably odd.
  
      xrobb @uniqueguy
        
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    xrobb @uniqueguy
    vampire i love your response and your not the only one LOL
  
      mariahaise @mariahaise
        
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    mariahaise @mariahaise
    Now I'll sure ask him out lol :'D
  
      Xylvr @sneaky_rai
        
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    Xylvr @sneaky_rai
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      Afomaru @afomaru
        
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    Afomaru @afomaru
    Senpai, Notice m-
Ahem. Well, I'm gonna say generally assertive guys don't like it when they're the ones who are being pursued since they *want* to do the chasing. But for the more introverted or shy, those are the type who would find it nice to be asked out, since they're uncomfortable with making the first move, be it due to shyness or nerves. If the guy is romantic type who seems to think/fantasize a lot, you'll probably have an easy time winning them over with simple gestures of courting.
If the guy you're after is more aggressive though, unless you go the "straight forward flirting, saying that you're interested then leaving them alone for a bit to ponder chasing you." method, I guess you have appeal to what they like passively and hope they notice you. Hopefully he isn't too dense.
I'm really gonna agree with Vamp here. I love the idea of a woman having the playful nature to chase me down. I myself am a tease though, but if someone will play the back and forth for a while with me and eventually force herself on me, that'd be pretty awesome.
Not to say I wouldn't go after a girl who interests me, I'd just have to initiate the play myself.
  
      mariahaise @mariahaise
        
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    mariahaise @mariahaise
    The first incomplete sentence tho xD. Well you may be right afomaru. I guess he isn't shy but he seems kinda introverted *sighs* 
  
      Afomaru @afomaru
        
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    Afomaru @afomaru
    I'm sorry, had to throw it out there. FOR COMEDY!
But nah, if you don't mind talking about it with some random guy over the net, send me a message and I can try my best to help ya.
  
      invisibal @invisibal
        
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    invisibal @invisibal
    i wish xD but it's really rare isn't it?
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