Can some one give me brotherly or sisterly advice!!

Definitely agree with what xueli mentioned above. I would further add that while you don't have to be a Java/Ruby on Rails programmer, at least polish your Microsoft skills whenever you have the chance (Excel & Access in particular since they do have some coding involved if you need to do higher-level tasks but prefer easier codes). Most important of all, look at your budget: how much debt will I accrue if I pursue med/law school for example? Can I pay it back in full in 5-6 years?