Porn In A Relationship

I think there are a lot of issues with MindGeek (they run Youporn, Pornhub and others) sites as by watching videos on there, you support every single other video posted on there and, let's be frank, there's a lot of videos on those sites where participants have been coerced or even drugged. I don't think there's anything wrong with porn so long as you know the pipeline the videos you watch went through and know everyone in that pipeline consented to it. Aka get those onlyfans accounts and personal websites of pornactors/actresses... screw youporn & co.

Porn can ruin a relationship yes. There is a guy who got beat up by his wife because she caught him looking at porn and she swears up and down its cheating. Which i guess in a way it is, but idk porn is a different category cuz you dont know that person and they dont know you so there is no connection there at all. Plus porn addictions are a thing and it can affect sexual performance.

I know many couples who do not consider porn cheating. Porn is fine in a relationship so long as both (or more) parties agree with watching porn not being cheating. Just consult your partner when you start dating on what they consider cheating and what they expect the relationship to be like.

Its only okay if both people in the relationship enjoy it.It should never replace the real thing.I'm the kind of person who likes to try new things.

I don't see any response that fully captures what I think. It depends entirely on the participants. Though what really destroys the relationship is someone going beyond the boundaries of the relationship without talking about it. Porn is just an example of this. That being said, I have found that relationships where it is openly talked about tend to be healthier.

Porn (both 2D and 3D) can be either a good or a bad thing, depending on how each person in the relationship sees it. Personally, I'm fine with it. She can watch porn if she wants to, she just needs to be transparent about it. I kind of expect the same on my side in the relationship. Again, I will bring up the whole "communication is key" point. I'll let her know if I am not comfortable with anything specific, and I expect her to let me know too. She wants to watch porn? Go for it girl. We have our urges, though at the same time, "Hello? I'm here? You have your own personal bone that you can ride, right in front of you (yes, I understand I'm not a shapeshifter with unlimited free time and the stamina of an Olympic athlete, and neither are you)". We can watch it together too, depending on what it is. Though, I'm likely not going to be a big fan of watching two dudes going to town on each other, since that's not my cup of tea. lol I would treat it like any additional "tool" in the toolbox we have for our relationship. Porn generally is all a show anyways. I would be uncomfortable if she was using material that was personally sent to her from other people on the other hand, and I will make sure she knows about my objections. If she wants to watch a vid on Pornhub of a guy with a magnum dong churning the girl like making butter so she can "stoke the fire between her legs", yea, fine, go ahead. I'm not fully against it, but I'm not for it either. Just be transparent about it, don't try to hide it. To a degree, I wouldn't mind watching along side her if I'm free. As much as porn is fun to watch and get off to, it won't replace "the real deal" of having both your emotional and sexual needs fulfilled by your lover. If you were only together for the physical side of things, believe me, there are other options at satisfaction that are better than an organic warm wet hole, or a hard throbbing rod. Those options are cheaper for your wallet, and require almost no emotional investment. I'm looking at many people that aren't even up for a debate about porn being banned completely in a relationship. Shit, if both sides were rarely getting randy, then I can see that, but the fact is, most people don't realize how often people in general get "hot and bothered". I also find it childish to be THAT jealous, though I can understand the reasoning behind it. Nobody wants to feel unwanted or unloved, but at least in my eyes, porn isn't a real sign of that.