Online Relationships

It is. It is. :3 yeah i know your story. You'll heal. You have plenty of loving friends to support you along the way. ^.^

Long distance relationship is a lot of trust. Do you mean a stranger you met online or someone you knew but move away. In a long distance relationship is hard when you are not sure the other partner whereabouts. I used to had 4 online relationship but did not go too long. Is either i got dumped or I dump them. I don't dump them. I let them dump me so I would not hurt their feeling.

Long distance relationships are for first always a matter of trusting your partner. If you can't trust you partner at all and and always say yourself he/she gonna cheat it don't do any good and I would think about it twice. The best would be to treat your far away partner like any other who would be in your near.

Takes a lot of commitment and trust. Having reliable transportation and being able to see each other even once a month is helpful. Any long term plans should eventually have one party moving closer to see the other at some point though. It can't and shouldn't stay LD forever.

Stop worrying about what they're doing, You can't do anything about it :l Same goes for up close relationships. Stressing about someone cheating on you all the time is only going to cause you to be distrustful. And that can push ehm away. Its hard to take them seriously so the best you can do is just have fun and enjoy the time you have with the person. If it doesnt work out, you didnt really lose anything, if it does work out then good for you :O

But jean. Being hurt once, imagine twice. It hurts really bad. ....Or you never fall in love? Did you found a solution? Did you found it? It hurts dammit. I just...glad to be free, it was too hard to cope with the the sensation. It extended for long months. Counting each seconds to forget the pain. Ten times worse if someone lie to you! And even worse if they lie, "I'm telling the truth" I don't know if I have guts to go in same risks again. I'm really pissed off with everthing about online relationship. How can I trust someone, if people can lie so easy? When they cannot give you a clear explanation, or hear your feelings, is the first evicence they are hiding something. Just GET OUT and the real pain will be less later,the soon you get out. But how to know who is to blame? I'm broke. I want advice too. I want advice too. But don't tell me the solution is to don't love, or love light. Is not real love. I want to believe that there is someone honest and flexible like me out there. Somewhere. I think I need learn japanese. Maybe something really wrong with america. I'm reaching some friends help, hopefully, this needs more talk. Much more.

I've been hurt multiple times. It's part of life. I don't have full fledged online relationships, pointless without some physical contact. I get to know someone online but with the intention of meeting them and deciding on a serious relationship after that.

It really depends on yourself, the other person, and what expectations you're both working on. I've said this in other threads about long distance relationships before but my best friend is happily married to the guy that she was in a long distance relationship with for 7 years of no physical contact. He was in the airforce and living in Japan so in those several years, they had never met in meatspace so to speak. Is this for everyone? I don't think so. But it's important to be clear on what you expect and need out of a relationship and what the other person needs too. This is also true for local relationships, but I think it's even more important in long distance relationships. Communication is key!

Ive had a 4 month online relationship not too long ago. Lets say it was hard, BUT it was easy if you think it the right way. We talked daily, skype, text, call, email and blah blah blaaaah. For me i could of gone for another year till we actually met, and thats the deal, you must be patient.(like all say) But for her she need me now. In short she broke up with me by saying. "I need freedom" Yes cuz, i a guy who never told you not to go have fun, was holding you down. The fact was she just wanted a donger in her. She left me for a drug dealer and boom 3 months later im here and she wants me back.... Okay the point is, if you really both want the same thing just make it clear and try your best to hold onto those little things. It works if you can be patient and understanding. Also, online relationships should be something you plan on doing if you want a long term thing that can wait till you boh have a chance to do it in real life. Lots of words but there.

I'm extremely iffy about online dating. I did it once and I dont think I'd do it again. I dated a guy online for two years. We sent each other gifts and text everyday but it wasn't enough. I was miserable to be honest but I put up a front and told myself that it could work out. It didn't though, I craved his direct attention and for him to physically be with me. I broke up with him to be in a face to face relationship.