likes and dislikes in guys....

I know kouta but I mean after a while a long while my 7 year relationship ended because he was never open with me hence no matter how hard I tried or how patient and understanding and tried communicating it failed because he didn't have the courage to just argue with me and tell me what was wrong or have a decent conversation about it. Arguing is healthy at times and I prefer to know what's wrong. It takes a while for anyone to open up that I know, as I am the same but I would like someone who would at least try to be open with me when it is really needed.

7 years is a long time. A case like that is perfectly understandable. As I mentioned there are those who won't at all, but I commend you for trying so long. This is where good communication can be all around helpful, as a good communicator will be more likely to talk things out than keep it all in even if they aren't entirely open. I hope you find someone that can do that the next time.

Ones that don't understand "I'M A L-E-S-B-I-A-N" and continue to flirt/rp with me in a persistent, sexual manner. Other than that, guys are awesome! They like video games just as much as I do, they don't criticize how I dress, they understand my love of women and admire them WITH me, and they don't freak out when I fart out loud. XD

I love guys who are intelligent and confident about it. I will not date someone who is dramatic or can't behave well in public. Being able to socialize with friends, family, and even random strangers is key. I've dated too many guys who didn't get this and it brought me much embarrassment.

I'll use this topic to say something about it as well I'm a guy just in case you didn't know that... but even I dislike/like things of guys (no I'm not guy but I think girls will agree with me on some things) I dislike the fact that a lot of guys think about sex to much and think looks are more important than personality. Dislike the fact that they would judge a person, rate them with other guys. You can judge all you want but keep it for yourself. I also dislike it when a guy doesn't understand a girl but doesn't want to listen to her to understand what she means. The things I do like from a guy is that no matter how they look they can be the biggest softy ever. Softy in the way that they do listen, love and understand. But to note say something to you megalomania and probably some others.... you say you love guys when they're intelligent and confident .... that's not a good match .. trust me it'll annoy you faster than you think not only will the guy always want to be right and show you that if he's confident about something else like looks you'll think he's a douchbag. And last something I dislike from both guy and girl ... they have had so many bf/gf that they're almost uncountable. They jump from person to person. Sometimes going all the way sometimes not ... than what is love? If it's so easy for them to go from person to person ... what is love (the rest of the song ... what is love, baby don't hurt) now you don't need to comment that anymore >.> NOTE: not directly said to anyone don't take offence please thanks ;)

But I don't really mean douchbag but won't it annoy you that he always want to be right even though he's wrong. I have a ''friend'' like that and he annoys me like hell, that's how I know XD He thinks he's the best and always wants to know it all but he's always wrong and bad in almost everything he does >.>