For anyone who has ever contemplated suicide

Well my bully in middle school got his face punched in. Don't fuck with me while Im watching One Piece lol. After that I went through puberty, started talking to people, got friends. Smooth sailing. My advice is dont wait for change to come. Go get it yourself. Cause help rarely comes unless you look for it. I'm not saying punch the guy. I'm saying get a friend to hold him then punch him.

Personally, I have zero sympathy for anyone who thinks that suicide is the answer. If you feel so shitty and pathetic that you think the only solution is to kill yourself, then by all means, do it. Now, I'm not saying people don't live shitty lives, I think we all can say we've had our share of bad days, but to me, personally, if you want to take the cowards way out, then do it, you fucking coward. Bullies are needed to show you what kind of person you are and will be in the real world. Are you gonna fold up and quit, letting someone run and ruin your life or are you going to fight back, letting the bully know that you aint gonna let anyone trample over your life without a fight. You want to be pitied? then go find a facebook group and meet up with someone. I'm not about to waste my time pitying someone who wants to die. fuck that, I don't care.

Note - This is coming from someone who did contemplate suicide. I was 14 and alone. Shit happens. When I thought that, almost immediately I couldn't believe how pathetic I seemed and never again thought about it. I hated myself for being so weak. I will never be that weak ever again.

I disagree with everything you say because of your first sentence. "Personally, I have zero sympathy for anyone who thinks that suicide is the answer." I believe people commit suicide because they cannot find an answer. We're all different. Some stronger than most, and obviously the strong survives. The trick is to keep searching for the answer instead of giving up. If someone is thinking about suicide right now, I commend them for still being here because if they really wanted to give up, then they would have done it already. And I think that's true strength. Because at the end of the day, you have to be dragged through the mud in order to know exactly how strong you are. You have to know how it feels to be afraid to live. Without that, you'll never have courage. Courage is the ability and willingness to keep striving through the face of fear....to keep striving to live. And anyone that understands this, and understands exactly how it feels to want to die, then they would never encourage a person to do so if you know that's exactly how they feel. Trolling or not. It's disgusting.

So I should sympathize and pity people who seriously consider killing themselves? Why? If they want to die I'm not going to discourage or encourage them. Unless they address me specifically, I'm going to ignore them. I see them as attention seekers and I hate people who are attention whores, regardless of what they're saying. A lot of times all they want is someone to listen to them bitch about how much their life sucks or how they are hurting inside or someone is abusing them, which is fine. You can do that without the threat of killing yourself hanging above their head. You're sad? Go see a shrink. Talk to a friend, take a nap, something. Death is not a joke. It's real. And if you have the audacity to threaten your family and friends saying you're going to kill yourself until someone gives you the attention you think you deserve, I seriously hope you jump into the grand canyon butt naked out a plane a mile high. I get being in so much physical pain that you'd wish for death so the pain goes away. I live that life now and I handle it. And I have help. But emotional people who can't keep their emotions in check, regardless the situation piss me off. You don't give an alchoholic a beer, you don't give a crackhead crack, you don't make a child rapist a pre-school teacher, you don't give an attention whore attention. Period. End of story.

I don't believe every single person that wants to commit suicide is seeking attention, considering some of them do so without even letting anyone know or even giving anyone a clue that they are feeling that way. I do not recall telling you what to do. Actually, I'm positive I didn't. I also do not recall saying you encourage or discourage anyone. Actually, I'm positive I did not do this as well. You can do whatever you want and express your own opinions. Like I did. End of story, hun! ^_^

I didnt post this for people who dont give a damn if someone kills themselves. This is meant to be STRICTLY positive so if you dont have anything nice to say, or have a shit opinion then dont say it at all. Please and thank you :)

Rika - Where did I say that you did? Seriously, point out for me where I implied that you, Rika, told me to do anything. Also, where did I imply that every single person that wants to commit suicide is just seeking attention? Save you the time, I didn't. I'm not so ignorant to say that every last one is an attention whore. I don't need you to remind me that I'm allowed to express my opinion. I already did. now thrice. I was trying to have an intelligent conversation with someone about this topic instead of having a pity party. I get depression leads to suicide. I think people who know that they're depressed, admit it and either seek help or help themselves are truly strong people. Not people who attempted suicide and failed, not people who cry and swear they'll kill themselves if they get bullied for being gay/fat/ugly/any other physical feature. If you LET people get into your head, as an adult, and you get mind fucked by some jock or tramp, that's on you. Keichi - It's fine that you don't agree with what I posted. But if you honestly think that my comment is negative, then you honestly didn't understand the message I'm trying to get across. Rika didn't get it either and so she responded in a mature manner. You could learn something from her. But telling me to not post cause you don't like the harsh opinion I have is beyond pathetic. Either ignore me or... well, that's pretty much your only option now, isn't it?

When your mom is shot and raped in front of you, while you hide in the closet, praying that the thief doesn't hear you cry, your dad disappears without a trace, your orphanage is a hell because you're sick all the time and because of that you end up missing out on everything, when you finally get adopted your new brother points out on a regular basis that you're not his real brother and when your "dad" gets drunk, he beats the crap out of you and makes it clear that you're not his son and that no one loves you, your "mom" doesn't do anything but let it happen and doesn't believe you when you tell her what's going on, when you go to school, the kids pick on you because you're "poor looking," you meet a girl in school that seems to be into you and then when you think you have something good going she rejects you and tells you that they were never your friend they just wanted to use you to get someone else jealous... if all that happens to you, and you think suicide for a moment because all the emotional and physical pain would go away, I'd say you're human. If you leave it at a thought, even a serious one, but never act on it, go see a shrink or help yourself in any numerous ways, I call that person a strong person.