human kite

But the "looking for a relationship" is a way to put your self out there while maintaining a safety net and if your not a particularly confident person (like myself) it seems greet but then you put yourself out there and nothing happens and let's say you have anxiety or something similar how do you go about this and especially on this site where you become like every other guy if you just friend every female on the site i guess what I'm asking is what's another way of putting yourself out there while still maintaining that safety net

So there is a "looking for a relationship" topic it it mainly consists of men's posts. This is basically people(guys) saying they want a girlfriend but they are to shy or anxious to actually talk to a girl/woman on this site, so my question is should these guys actively talk to the women on here in order to form a relationship instead of waiting for a woman to message them (Hopefully tis wasn't to confusing)