Being in your 40's means, less energy and being close to, if not in your sixties by the time your kid graduates and you'd be lucky to be alive to watch your grandchildren grow up. But, to each their own.
If the universe or the good Lord allows it.
@yaasshat - I live a healthy lifestyle so i'm positive i'll be active in my 40s. i think it's highly possible i'll live into my 70s (besides my grandmother who did drugs and died in her 50s, all of my mother's side up to my great-great-great grandmother have lived into their 80s and 90s) so i'll have spent enough time with my grandchildren to be happy, but even if i die in my 60s i wouldn't be sad not meeting my grandchildren because i'll have had my own little one. i can see myself having a kid between 35-45 so i'd be about 57-67 when they graduate college which sounds good to me!
Haha nope none for me. Not into them and never have been.kids love me but i like to return them. I genetically would not have my own but if my man wanted one i would serrogate but not through me. Id die in the process..so not worth my ownn life tbb or my genetics soo..nah. but hey man we all got our opnions
I have 5 nieces ranging from 2 to 12. I love them to death. Yet I as well like being able to return them at the end of the day.
Right now I don't really want kids. In the future if my significant other would like them then maybe. I would rather adopt a child though.
is that a proposition, neet >w>?
I'm pretty neutral about the idea honestly. If I end up having kids I'd welcome it, if I don't then that's fine too. Not really for or against it.
I'd definitely say I'm pretty good with kids though, I've changed countless diapers and done a lot of babysitting up until now, they seem to like me for whatever reason while in my case I-I guess I see them as like...pets?
Like my main thoughts about dogs and cats were always "Yeah, they're cool with me as long as they don't pee/poop on the carpet and don't damage things in the house" for kids it's like "Yeah, they're cool with me as long as they don't pee/poop on the carpet, don't make a mess, and do something with themselves when they're older" See? There's barely a difference there. But hey, even if they do make a mess of stuff I'd still keep them around anyway and clean up after them as many times as it takes with some(a lot of) complaints since love makes you able to tolerate that type of shit...both literally and figuratively :u
Not gunna lie, I'm pretty bad with kids, also, I just don't like them very much. I have three younger brothers that I watch over, they made me not wanna have kids of my own.