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How important is Consistency to you?

hellion1
To me it is the MOST important quality. I find it to be the factor that proceeds Trust, Love, and essentially all others. How can anyone gain trust if they are not consistent?
momoichi
well while new things can spice up a relationship its good to feel safe and comfortable in a relationship
hellion1
Exactly Miss Fart Lover!!! I should probably extend my thoughts and mention I don't mean being a drone, but rather CORE VALUES
yaasshat
Consistency is golden. Now, I don't expect my fiance to always feel the same, act the same or do the same things, but I do expect consistency in truth and communication. If I can't rely on her or she can't rely on me, what do we have? She has been consistently loving, caring, listening, giving and with open communication. Does this mean things are perfect? For me, yes it does and as far as I can tell it also does for us. The thing to remember is, this is a two way street, if you expect consistency, you should give consistency and be held accountable for such.
infernalmonsoon
I try to be as consistent as possible - sure I might be nice, caring and I show my love for the people I care about but I am also very combative and I lose my shit very easily. I think it's incredibly important to never hide those flaws, it's far better when people know me as that awesome but clearly distressed airhead rather than a faux goody two shoes all the time. I want people to accept me for who I am, not the purely positive image most people expect of me.
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